My ex BF and I see each other WAAAAAAAAAAAY to often for my comfort and I'm especially peeved by the amazing number of similarities that have developed in our lives during the last five years. Tell me if these are coincidences or his sad desperation:

1. We break up and I move to City X. Three months later, he moves to City X, too.

2. I enroll in State U for a master's. Next semester, he matriculates. IN THE SAME PROGRAM!!!

3. I become involves with a fellow grad student from a foreign country. A couple weeks later, he finds an exchange student honey.

4. I apply for a summer abroad program. He applies, too. I get accepted, but decide to stay and try to finish my masters in 18 months. He also gets accepted, but declines. Reason: "Cheaper to finish school by going straight through).

5. I met great guy. Fall madly in love and take a leave of absence to move across country to City Z. 6 months later, the ex is also in City Z, living with brand new girlfriend.

6. Decide to finish degree by commuting back and forth every couple weeks. Ex arranges to do the same.

7. Great guy and I marry after 2 years. Ex proposes three weeks after he sees our engagement announcement. Same minister, same reception hall.

8. Go to work for state agency. Guess who gets a job there 4 months later.

9. I get pregnant. At 5 months, I get a card in the mail with a picture of his wife's very flat belly and an arrow drawn on it with the message "Class of 2021".

I know it doesn't qualify as stalking, but this isn't normal. What do you think?