My younger brother in law confessed his crush obsession to me and of course I rejected him because it is unrespectful to myself and his older brother(my husband)any way he has hit on me three more times and all have been rejects from my part.To get to the point he lives with his other brother and wife and I have been obsessed with the fact that I am sure he is screwing her..because if he has hit on me so many times.Please give me advice on how to stop obsessing and let them deal with their own conscience. I have hinted to my husband about them but have failed to tell him about the other two times he has hit on me to keep the peace in the family. The first I told him because I was beside myself and explained it was the liquor he had that night but the other two nights he hit on me he was sober and told me he would dream about me and when he was making love to his girlfriend he would imagine himself with me. He even begged me just to let him give me oral pleasure.