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Hi, This is long but please read!!! I met this guy 10 months ago and we hit off really well. He told me he was single and had no kids, but one day he would like a family.
He was really sweet, he took me everywhere and we talked about our dreams and wishes out of life and he semed so honest. But of course I always save room for disapointments. Anyway, after three months of our reltions, he intro me to his mother, she was very nice to me. Then 5 months in the relationship I found out through an old friend that knew him, that he was married had lots of kids with other women and his present wife is preg. at the time. I would never mess with a married man so I confronted him, he was not even living with his mother like he said, he was living with this women (wife. It took him some time to tell me the truth then he admitted, he said he was sorry and he reaaly loves me (blah blah) and he was afraid to tell me cause this woman
he married was just an arrangement cause she wanted her US papers. He said he fell for her a little, had sex couple of times then she got preg to spite him (what ever),he said he told her after she had the baby,he will go his own way and help her finance.
So he gaved me a story out of this world and because I was so much in love with him I was in denial and I tried to deal with it somehow. I can't beleive his mother and his friends went along with it too. A month later his illegal wife gaved birth and I things were still ok although I was feeling uncomfortable. A month after the birth he started to avoid me and eventually he said he loves his wife and he will try to make it work. He was not even kind about it and we exchanged words, mostly him. he really has lots of kids by other women too like the person said. he also has couple of hundreds$$$ he cheated me out of too. He is such a creep!! how could I let this happend??
I am so upset, I am mad with myself and I am pissed at him Big time I want revenge so he won't play another woman again but on the other hand, I want to let it go but I can't I am hurt and uopset at the same time. Please help me with any advice, please don't be cruel to me. thanks
He was really sweet, he took me everywhere and we talked about our dreams and wishes out of life and he semed so honest. But of course I always save room for disapointments. Anyway, after three months of our reltions, he intro me to his mother, she was very nice to me. Then 5 months in the relationship I found out through an old friend that knew him, that he was married had lots of kids with other women and his present wife is preg. at the time. I would never mess with a married man so I confronted him, he was not even living with his mother like he said, he was living with this women (wife. It took him some time to tell me the truth then he admitted, he said he was sorry and he reaaly loves me (blah blah) and he was afraid to tell me cause this woman
he married was just an arrangement cause she wanted her US papers. He said he fell for her a little, had sex couple of times then she got preg to spite him (what ever),he said he told her after she had the baby,he will go his own way and help her finance.
So he gaved me a story out of this world and because I was so much in love with him I was in denial and I tried to deal with it somehow. I can't beleive his mother and his friends went along with it too. A month later his illegal wife gaved birth and I things were still ok although I was feeling uncomfortable. A month after the birth he started to avoid me and eventually he said he loves his wife and he will try to make it work. He was not even kind about it and we exchanged words, mostly him. he really has lots of kids by other women too like the person said. he also has couple of hundreds$$$ he cheated me out of too. He is such a creep!! how could I let this happend??
I am so upset, I am mad with myself and I am pissed at him Big time I want revenge so he won't play another woman again but on the other hand, I want to let it go but I can't I am hurt and uopset at the same time. Please help me with any advice, please don't be cruel to me. thanks
