Sex is between your ears, not your legs. Sounds like you must have a "cleaner" relationship with your washer then with your hubby.
Most woman are fake anyway.
The least you could do is masturbate with the vibe while you are having sex with him.
Some men would get offended by that. Maybe you could think about how the vibrator feels when you are with your hubby, this might help you get an orgasm.
What about his tongue?
For me; I get off just working my GF's dildo on her. He's your hubby; you guys NEED to communicate or I see a short future together.
this if Darah and i believe that pressing against a washing mashine for self pleasure is so wrong on so many levels.