im 13 and completely flat. if i have anything at all it only sticks up about a millimeter away from my normal skin. everyone else in school with me (7th or 8th grade) has at least something! i know nobody in my grade who is as flat as me. espeially my friends. we all went bathing suit shopping and they took me to the kids section cuz i couldnt fit in the swimsuits they could fit it. :( im desperate and i really try hard to make it seem like i dont care or pretend to know that i will have something on my chest soon. its really embarassing and i know that everyone talks about me and how flat i am behind my back. i know many people stuff their bras or wear falsies or anything like that but i would feel uncomfortable with that. and im wondering how much does it really mean to a guy to have a girl with a 'nice rack' is that all they judge you on? and i have never been asked out before except in 5th grade by some kid i didnt know and then everyone was flat. my sister tells me im pretty without a chest but i dont know. i really need some advice, can you please help me?

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by Anonymous on Oct 17, 2004 at 9:00 PM

I'm a dude, bout the same age, I can say big racks are nice, but that for a quick call, if you have nothing, they'll focus more on your personality, i know, cause i'm falling for someone like that.

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by Anonymous on Oct 17, 2004 at 10:17 PM

thanks sooo much!!

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by Anonymous on Oct 18, 2004 at 10:56 AM

Honey, you're 13. Not every girl "blossoms" at 13. It may be you grow a little later. Stop worrying so much and just enjoy being 13.

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by Anonymous on Oct 18, 2004 at 12:53 PM

Hun be happy you dont have anything yet. Im 15 and wear a 34 DD. I hate when guys ask me out and all they do is stare at my cheast. Some even sit there and just druel. It can be very upsetting to find a guy who only wants you for your cheast. So enjoy not having them while you dont have them

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by Anonymous on Oct 18, 2004 at 8:22 PM

ok thanks you guys so much for the help :) it helped so much

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by Anonymous on Oct 19, 2004 at 7:56 PM

I'm an older guy and knew a gal once who was flat-chested but,she had such nice nipples,as big as my thumb and very sensitive. she was soooooo hot. Go with what ya got girl and don't let it bother you.

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by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2004 at 10:46 AM

ey girl, im alomost 17 and im only a 32A! dont sweat it, im pretty enough with out breasts, and my mom wasnt 19 till she got boobs the size they r now! dnt worry baby xx

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by Anonymous on Oct 21, 2004 at 3:28 PM

Be happy, at 10 I was already a DD.

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by Anonymous on Oct 21, 2004 at 8:25 PM

You'll be fine even if they never grow out much; as long as you don't get a huge fat butt. I'll take a nice tight butt over boobs anyday.

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by Anonymous on Nov 14, 2004 at 9:18 AM

Dont worry....we all grow at differant rates in differant places. I remember it well...here I am a respectable 36C....My boyfriend likes lots of other things about me both physical and personality/mental. Develope your mind...you have some measure of control over that.....: )

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by Anonymous on Nov 12, 2012 at 7:28 PM

I'm 18, and I have the smallest bra size (34A) of anyone I know, my 12 year old sister included. My boyfriend is one of those guys who likes small boobs. Keep in shape, so you can flaunt the rest of your womanly curves, like your waist, hips, and ass. I'll never win a wet t-shirt contest, but I'm not lacking for male attention, either. So don't worry! Just assess what physical attributes you do have and play up the eyes a little

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