I am an Anonymous Coward and I want to say ...

I'm a married 31 year old man with a HUGE crush on my 23 year old sister in-law. We have been close for many years and we both share a LOT of info back and forth. We are very open with each other and probably to the point that it's not healthy. Well, I finally admitted to her the other day that I had a crush and asked her if she felt the same way. After a bit she finally admitted she did. Since then I haven't been able to get her out of my head(s). I know it's horrible and I know I can't go there, but the temptation is HUGE.

My wife is a great woman, but our sex life is almost non-existant - maybe once a month and nothing but straight up boring sex. That just makes it tougher because I've talked to my sister in-law about it and it just makes me want her more.

Any advise would be appreciated.