I am having an affair with a married man that i work with. I hate him but desperatly need him at the same time. I dont know why he is not even good in bed. I have a boyfiend who treats me well, we just dont have sex enough. I am heartborken because the man that i am having an affair with is trying to come on to this ugly girl at work........i feel like he is cheating on me. How can i be mad when i am stealing a man that doesnt een belong to me