I have a serious problem on my hands... For a few years, my husband was unemployed, and he was the laziest person I'd ever met in my life. I was always having to come home from work and clean up his ridiculous messes, and all he ever did was spend my hard-earned money to buy video games rather than letting me use it to take care of us. Our bills were late, but that made no difference to him; he refused to go get a job because he thought he was too good for fast food.

After a while, I got up the nerve to leave him, and while I was preparing to do so, I ended up trolling for guys on the internet. I made the serious mistake of telling them all I was already divorced, and one of them expressed an interest in being with me, even if it was long-distance. I've been hiding my relationship with both from each other for almost 2 years.

The problem is that things have gotten better with my husband, so now I want to stay. My boyfriend told me recently that he's fallen in love with me, but I'm going to have to break his heart. How do I break it off with him without telling him everything? I know he'd tell my husband if I told him everything, and then I'd lose everything...
Any feedback at all would be nice; I have no dea what I'm doing here...