When I was a kid girls were girls and boys were boys. It was no different than today, girls were fucked in the back seat, behind the barn, in the apple orchard, etc. Certainly there were some girls that were goodie two shoes, but by the time we were in the 10th grade, most girls had put out and weren't virgins, we just pretended we were.

Back then a 16 yr old girl usually had a 19 or 20 yr old boyfriend, and nobody much cared. She had usually had her cherry popped when she was 14 or so by some highschooler or a cousin or something, and by the time she was 16 she pretty much knew all the ways you could drop your panties.

I was deflowered at 13 by my cousin, he was 21. He came back for more for about a year, after which I moved on to a boy who was in the service. He was stationed at the base, and we met up as often as we could for a romp in the hay. We had lots of fun, and plenty plenty of oral sex. I used to get down at the movies along with other girls to help our boys, and we learned how to catch it all so it wouldn't go all over the place.

I was 16 when he was transferred and my new boyfriend worked at the plant, he was about 23 at the time, and well experienced. We got pretty good at having sex in the car at the drive in, and many many times straddled him at the movie house as well. Lots and lots of time our skirt was hicked up and he got a piece of ass, as they called it.

When I was 19 I married my husband, who was 33 at the time. Four kids, a long marriage, good memories, and a man who knew how to treat a woman, and woman who knew how to treat a man.

I don't get why there is such a hang up on kids with sex, it is not new, it is not wrong, it is just life. Your mama did it, your grandma too. Getting your cherry popped is just something you go through growing up.