My wife won't talk about sexual things, so it's hard to tell what she'd like. I bought a smallish vibrator which she said made her a bit numb when I used it on her. We've used vibrating cock rings, which she really seems to like but they're a bit awkward to use every time. She won't use toys herself and says she never masturbates, but I'm pretty experimental by nature.

What I REALLY want is to introduce a nice-sized dildo to her, but I know if I brought it up she'd never agree to it. She always dated big, athletic men in her past so I'm certain she's had some big cocks in her life (although she'd never admit it, or admit she liked it). My cock is 6" and not very thick, and after 2 kids I can tell she could handle quite a bit more. I've also gotten the sense from her a few times though that a big cock definitely wouldn't be a bad thing, so I bought an 8-1/2" dildo that I'm dying to use with her, just not sure when's the right time. I also bought a cyberskin sleeve that would make me an inch or so longer and much thicker.

I'm thinking I should I just start using the dildo on her when she's all worked up from some oral sex, after which she practically begs me to fuck her. Or I'll put on the cyberskin sleeve without her knowing and just go for it, surprising her with "my" bigger size. She never cums from penetration, but I love her so much and want to see her fully satisfied with something nice and big. Maybe I need a few drinks in me to get up the courage to try either...