Cheating is a selfish act. Telling your husband would also be a selfish act because all you would be doing is relieving your own guilt.
Just try to be a good wife and person from now on. Spend the rest of your life making it up to him.
Has nothing to do with cheating. It's not like you took him home, fucked him and gave him a full blow job. Now that would be really cheating. Just a little harmless sexual fun with your girl friends. Ni big deal.
never saw a male stripper get a hard on.
"Has nothing to do with cheating."
Ask any honest person in the world if they think putting a strange dick in your mouth is cheating.
She feels guilty, so even she knows it was wrong.
would it be ok, if ya husband went to a strip show and put his mouth on a womens vagina???
Your husband would probably LOVE to watch you do it again. All husbands want to see their wives act like sluts, sucking another man's cock, getting fucked, even gangbanged. Almost all men have those fantasies, so work it in from that angle.
I suggest not to tell him, it can be the beginning of a bad relationship. You made the choice learn from it. If you love him focus on building a good marriage. Its fun at the time but you will always have a guily cloud over you. Some husband wouldn't have a problem with it but its risk you have to take.
