- Obsessions -
Straight Male / 53
Obsessed With Blowjobs
I am obsessed with blowjobs. I want them all the time, or at least every day. They are so good, and I wish I got better quality ones more frequently. I know where I can get better ones (and I don't even mean by paying for it) but I don't want to cheat.
I've kept what I think are pretty good records of how they all went (not of every blowjob, but how each woman tended to do it). I've had about 60 sexual partners, 50 of whom gave me blowjobs, so I can make some comparisons. I invite others to compare notes here as well. Of the 10 who didn't suck me, five either had never done that and weren't ready, or positively disliked doing this; the rest might have if we had gone out longer.
The best ones are with women who could either deepthroat (3, maybe 4) or who let me push their heads up and down to control the sensation until I ejaculated (at least 4, and one other said she would have let me do this if I had asked, but I wasn't read to try that yet). Or both (exactly one--she would have been a keeper except there were so many life incompatibilities between us, showing that despite my obsession, blowjobs aren't everything).
I think 16 were one-time events, one more gave me two blowjobs in consecutive weeks; the others were all longer relationships, from a few months to years.
I love having the woman suck me steadily until I come, but variation in the speed is sometimes helpful. Some used their hands, some did not, and I'm not sure one is consistently better than the other, it all depends on how it is done.
21 women made me cum in their mouths; at least one other always pulled off me at the last moment and finished by jacking me off into her waiting mouth, and another always had me do the jerking, but again let me deposit my semen onto her tongue. Most of these women swallowed. 17 more let me cum on their tongues, usually with me jacking off, but one always finished a blowjob by pulling back and jacking me off into her mouth, another never sucked deeply but just sucked the head while jacking me off, which eventually led to my coming. Five of these also probably could have made me cum in their mouths with a blowjob alone, except that either they got tired or I wanted to do something different and cut things off too soon. So that means that roughly half the women I've gotten blowjobs from are able to make me cum that way, where they actually did or not, while about 80% were ok with cum in their mouths, at least briefly.
Most of these women swallowed my cum, but one, a Vietnamese immigrant, would usually only let me cum on her face, and I could only cum in her mouth when she was in my car bending over my crotch and I pumped her head down, holding it in place during my orgasm. Both times we did this, I eventually finished and let go of her head, then she got up and opened the car door to spit it out onto the ground. I didn't mind that at all; to me the important thing is getting it in the woman's mouth and having her stay on my dick until my orgasm is complete. What she does with it later is her business. Another woman let me ejaculate in her mouth several times, but then said, with cum in her mouth, that "I don't know what to do with it," and eventually went to spit it out in the bathroom sink. There might have been 1-2 more who spat, but this was rare, surely no more than 10% of those willing to suck my cock.
31 let me cum on their faces. Most were ok with that, though at least three clearly found it completely revolting, one of whom nevertheless told me I could keep doing it if I wanted to, which I did, the others I spared repeat treatments. So that's roughly 60% who either accepted, loved, or just occasionally tolerated it.
Almost all my blowjobs were one-on-one. Once at a sex party a woman I had just met sucked me to orgasm while another woman watched (there were at least three other people in the room, but they weren't watching me but busy with their own activities). A month or two later at the same locale, I alternated between the mouths of two women who were lying on a bed while someone else fiddled with their lower parts, but I didn't ejaculate or have both touching me at once. Finally in the last year I got to feel two women sucking me off at the same time, but the second partner didn't last so I'm back with a single primary partner for now.
The youngest to suck me was 17, though that same woman didn't let me cum in her mouth until we met again two years later. I'm pretty sure that was my only teenager. She was also 13 years younger than me, and that's also the greatest gap in that direction so far. I'm not sure how the oldest was, one was around 60 but I don't know exactly, but that was only recently so the age gap wasn't that large. When I was 37 I was sucked by a woman who was at least 15 years older than me, so that was probably the biggest gap in that direction.
Coincidentally, the number of women I've had vaginal intercourse with, slept with (non-metaphorically), and gave oral sex to, are all exactly the same: 32. There is significant overlap between these three lists, especially the first two, but not perfectly. I would have given oral sex to most of my other partners if they wanted it or the relationship lasted longer, though at least 3-4 refused it, saying either explicitly that they didn't like it or being vague about their refusal or redirection.
I'm a little surprised to see that I've only noted 21 who gave me handjobs, but maybe that's just because given the choice I always went for blowjobs, and I only count those involving seriously jacking me without a blowjob being involved, incidentally dick-touching doesn't count. 12 women made me cum that way.
OK, your turn. It's ok if you don't have statistics, I'm also interested in hear about variations in technique, especially unusual ones.
I've kept what I think are pretty good records of how they all went (not of every blowjob, but how each woman tended to do it). I've had about 60 sexual partners, 50 of whom gave me blowjobs, so I can make some comparisons. I invite others to compare notes here as well. Of the 10 who didn't suck me, five either had never done that and weren't ready, or positively disliked doing this; the rest might have if we had gone out longer.
The best ones are with women who could either deepthroat (3, maybe 4) or who let me push their heads up and down to control the sensation until I ejaculated (at least 4, and one other said she would have let me do this if I had asked, but I wasn't read to try that yet). Or both (exactly one--she would have been a keeper except there were so many life incompatibilities between us, showing that despite my obsession, blowjobs aren't everything).
I think 16 were one-time events, one more gave me two blowjobs in consecutive weeks; the others were all longer relationships, from a few months to years.
I love having the woman suck me steadily until I come, but variation in the speed is sometimes helpful. Some used their hands, some did not, and I'm not sure one is consistently better than the other, it all depends on how it is done.
21 women made me cum in their mouths; at least one other always pulled off me at the last moment and finished by jacking me off into her waiting mouth, and another always had me do the jerking, but again let me deposit my semen onto her tongue. Most of these women swallowed. 17 more let me cum on their tongues, usually with me jacking off, but one always finished a blowjob by pulling back and jacking me off into her mouth, another never sucked deeply but just sucked the head while jacking me off, which eventually led to my coming. Five of these also probably could have made me cum in their mouths with a blowjob alone, except that either they got tired or I wanted to do something different and cut things off too soon. So that means that roughly half the women I've gotten blowjobs from are able to make me cum that way, where they actually did or not, while about 80% were ok with cum in their mouths, at least briefly.
Most of these women swallowed my cum, but one, a Vietnamese immigrant, would usually only let me cum on her face, and I could only cum in her mouth when she was in my car bending over my crotch and I pumped her head down, holding it in place during my orgasm. Both times we did this, I eventually finished and let go of her head, then she got up and opened the car door to spit it out onto the ground. I didn't mind that at all; to me the important thing is getting it in the woman's mouth and having her stay on my dick until my orgasm is complete. What she does with it later is her business. Another woman let me ejaculate in her mouth several times, but then said, with cum in her mouth, that "I don't know what to do with it," and eventually went to spit it out in the bathroom sink. There might have been 1-2 more who spat, but this was rare, surely no more than 10% of those willing to suck my cock.
31 let me cum on their faces. Most were ok with that, though at least three clearly found it completely revolting, one of whom nevertheless told me I could keep doing it if I wanted to, which I did, the others I spared repeat treatments. So that's roughly 60% who either accepted, loved, or just occasionally tolerated it.
Almost all my blowjobs were one-on-one. Once at a sex party a woman I had just met sucked me to orgasm while another woman watched (there were at least three other people in the room, but they weren't watching me but busy with their own activities). A month or two later at the same locale, I alternated between the mouths of two women who were lying on a bed while someone else fiddled with their lower parts, but I didn't ejaculate or have both touching me at once. Finally in the last year I got to feel two women sucking me off at the same time, but the second partner didn't last so I'm back with a single primary partner for now.
The youngest to suck me was 17, though that same woman didn't let me cum in her mouth until we met again two years later. I'm pretty sure that was my only teenager. She was also 13 years younger than me, and that's also the greatest gap in that direction so far. I'm not sure how the oldest was, one was around 60 but I don't know exactly, but that was only recently so the age gap wasn't that large. When I was 37 I was sucked by a woman who was at least 15 years older than me, so that was probably the biggest gap in that direction.
Coincidentally, the number of women I've had vaginal intercourse with, slept with (non-metaphorically), and gave oral sex to, are all exactly the same: 32. There is significant overlap between these three lists, especially the first two, but not perfectly. I would have given oral sex to most of my other partners if they wanted it or the relationship lasted longer, though at least 3-4 refused it, saying either explicitly that they didn't like it or being vague about their refusal or redirection.
I'm a little surprised to see that I've only noted 21 who gave me handjobs, but maybe that's just because given the choice I always went for blowjobs, and I only count those involving seriously jacking me without a blowjob being involved, incidentally dick-touching doesn't count. 12 women made me cum that way.
OK, your turn. It's ok if you don't have statistics, I'm also interested in hear about variations in technique, especially unusual ones.
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