Ingrid77

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Gender: Straight Female
Age: 44
Relationship Status : With someone
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Number of Confessions : 13
About Ingrid77:

Hello all, I'm new here. I am still working on some confessions, partly from my childhood and partly from my adult life. I live in the the Netherlands (Europe), married and we have 3 teenage kids, but sexually still very happy, adventurous, outgoing and (extremely) active. My husband and me love to try it all, experiment, and we have sex outdoors very often. We did some swinging in the past but are now exclusive to each other. I will try to get the courage to post also some embarrassing things. Some of these things are even a secret to my husband, while I share almost everything with him.

Ingrid77's Favorite Confessions:

The Day My Life Changed Sexually

It was August 17, 1999, my 25th birthday. I went out for drinks with coworkers. When I got home around 11pm I saw Connie's car in the driveway. Connie is my mother's best friend. They were sitting on the sofa chatting and when I came in mom got up gave me a hug & a kiss wishing me a happy birthday. She told me to join them. After asking me what i did after work mom asked me if I wanted a beer. Sure. She got up and while in the kitchen Connie and I caught up on old times.
Out of the blue Connie began rubbing my leg and she leaned in and gave me a birthday "kiss". It wasn't just a peck on the cheek. I didn't mind because I always thought she was hot and often fantasized about her. Before I knew it we were making out, her tongue down my throat while she messaged my cock through my pants. When mom came back she said 'you couldn't even wait for me?'.
I turned and looked at her and she was getting undressed. Then Connie began to strip down. Mom came over, kissed me passionately and dropped to her knees and began sucking my already hard cock. Connie and I were kissing and she told me to suck her tits. It was a dream cum true.
Over the next few hours I fucked my mother and Connie in multiple positions and as we progressed both of them began talking very dirty. Fuck my mouth, smack that cock on my face, pinch my nipples, eat my c**t, fuck me hard. Both of them were so nasty with me and each other. I was watching my mother eat Connie's pussy while she was sucking my cock.
When I was ready to cum for the third time they wanted it on their faces. I shot a full load and they kissed and swapped it while I watched.
The three of use fell asleep in mom's bed and did it one more time in the morning.
That began a long sexual relationship with the two of them, together and separate until Connie moved away.

My First Time Anal Although I Never Thought I Would Like It So Much

I am not sure in which category I should put this, so I will put it here.

I was 18 years old and until then I was absolutely 100% sure, certain, convinced and determined not to have anal sex, ever. With my best girlfriend I talked about this subject before and we both thought it was gross, probably felt extremely painful and is exists only to please men. Regular girls like us would never do something like this. We did see this sexual act in porn magazines and we were both grossed out by it. On a side note, ever since I was maybe 15 or so I regularly fingered my butthole while masturbating. It was just with selfplay and just to spice things up for myself. That could be kinda hot, if I was in the mood for that.

When I was 18 I already was in a 1+ year committed relationship with my boyfriend who was just a few months older than me. I loved him very much and we were compatible in many ways. The sex was wonderful as well, open and honest, always with total respect for each other. One night, while performing oral on me, he suddenly gave my butthole a little lick. I immediately responded with a moan as I found that sensation very interesting! Fed by my response he continued to lick me there and after a while slid his index finger in my butt and slowly fingered me there, while he now focused on my clitoris. Within minutes I reached an intense orgasm while he still had his index finger down there.

We had regular vaginal sex right after that and it felt awesome as I just came really hard. Afterwards he was kinda shy but still spoke his mind, if I would be okay that we try anal penetrative sex at least once. He promised he would be super careful with me. The thought now suddenly did not turn me off but sounded somewhat like 'hmmm, maybe?' The following days I gave it some more thought as I thought it still could be super painful. A penis is bigger than a finger. But I don't want to be seen like a dirty girl. Should I? Maybe just give it a try?

I discussed this with my best girlfriend. She was blushing and admitted she and her boyfriend already tried it! What the fuck? She said she was too afraid to admit it to me. We both laughed about it. They only tried it a couple of times and it wasn't as horrible as she first thought it would be. I was very surprised with the fact that she already had anal sex. But hearing her response was now also another pro for me to maybe try it as well.

While talking with my boyfriend on the phone I told him that we could maybe try it this weekend, but I told him to go super super careful on me. When the weekend finally arrived and we were in his bedroom when his parents weren't home we got naked and did our foreplay which was always a turnon to me. He then whispered that he bought lubricant. My heart started racing and I knew I definitely wanted to try this, at least try, maybe more. We discussed positions and were totally clueless. He then suggested that maybe I can be on the edge of the bed with my legs pulled up high (which I always love to do), so he can see both openings clearly, to see what he was doing. I agreed.

Nervous as hell I layed back, spread my legs and pulled them up. He also did this often with regular sex, so he could have a good look at my pussy. But now it was for him to look at my butthole. He kneeled down in front of the bed and started to lick my butthole again. Then he took the lubricant and fingerfucked my ass for a while, using his index finger. I was totally turned on. He switched from his index finger to his middle finger and now tried to slide those two fingers inside. After a while it worked and he gently, super gently used those two fingers. After a bit I moaned "try it with your dick now".

I looked up and I saw him lubing up his fully erect penis. He came closer to the bed and tried aiming it at my butthole. Since everything was very slippery, the first 4-5 attempts all ended up in my pussy. It didn't seem that easy to put it in my butthole since those holes are so close to each other. After some more tries the tip of his penis finally ended up in the opening of my butt. Ok, I immediately felt this was bigger than the 1-2 fingers from before. He was super sweet and kept checking me if it was okay, and that he didn't want to hurt me. OK, the tip was in completely and he tried to go further. That felt slightly weird and just a bit, just a bit painful, not too much. I told him to use more lube, so he pulled back and lubed it all up even more. And with the next attempt he slid his tip and a good part of his penis inside. I moaned and switched up "Auh!" with "Oh!" as it was slightly painful but with every move it felt better and better.

I closed my eyes and I almost could not believe I was being assfucked! A thing that I promised myself not to ever do. I felt dirty, I felt hot, and yes, I was even somewhat enjoying it. I moaned to my boyfriend how it was and he said it was hot, amazing and tight. He was not rough but he sure was penetrating my virgin ass in a pretty good way.

He always had quite good stamina but after not too long he orgasmed deep inside my tight little wrong hole. All in all I can say that my first time anal was pretty good. No horror, no extreme pain and definitely something worth trying again. And with that very same boyfriend we did it quite regularly. I'd say maybe 3-4 times a month, all depending on the mood. And the older I got (after we broke up) I enjoyed it more and more, with different boyfriends and now still with my husband. We do it on a regular.

My Little Bother

I have a brother Mark who is two years younger than me. I was sixteen; Mark around fourteen, when I caught him sniffing my soiled knickers! He apologised, promised never to do it again, and pleaded with me not to tell mum and dad. I was shocked at what I saw; we were very close as brother and sister and shared almost everything. He later confessed that he wanted to see what a vagina smelt like and then got hooked on my smell. He was very apologetic and ashamed and hoped I could one day forgive him.

It's strange, I was initially shocked and a little disgusted by what I'd seen; however, I was also a little excited by it. At sixteen, I was still a virgin, and although a couple of boyfriends had fingered me, actually more mauled than fingered, I was very innocent. A few weeks later, I told him he was forgiven, and I didn't mind if he continued to do this. He looked well shocked and promised once again not to do it. I told him I’d checked on the internet and it was only a natural thing boys did, and at least he wasn't surfing for porn or forcing himself on girls; so he could sniff my knickers with my consent. To be honest, I wanted him too as it made me feel like a sexy woman; what can I say? Puberty was a complex time!

I then found myself inspecting my knickers whenever I changed them. Should any of my knickers have menstrual or 'other' stains, I would rinse them out and put them straight into the washing machine; girls need some secrets. Sometimes, I would smear the gusset into my pussy, kind of masturbating with them before putting them in the laundry backet; I would imagine Mark sniffing them and end up having an orgasm.

I suppose if that's where it ended, it would be quite a lame confession to be making. I did ask Mark a few times if he still 'used' my panties, and usually, he confirmed he did with a smile. When I was about seventeen and Mark fifteen, our relationship changed. Our parents were out at a works Christmas party, and we had stayed home to watch TV. The TV in the lounge was massive with a brilliant sound system, and we wanted to watch different films. It was late, and we had both changed into our nightwear; I had on a nightie, panties and Kimono, whilst Mark wore a T-shirt and boxers. This wasn't unusual for us to have our bedtime attire on in front of each other. Anyway, we had just watched a movie and disagreement broke out about what we would watch next.

We ended up wrestling on the floor, and during our skirmish, I ended up sitting on top of Mark, pinning him to the carpet. Purely by accident, his head ended up my nightie and my panty gusset on his face. I think we both understood what had happened at the same time. I felt his tongue or nose brush against my panty covered pussy, and I involuntary rubbed myself on my little brother. It was a fantastic feeling sitting there on my brother's face, feeling his warm tongue lapping at my panties. I became aware that Mark had his cock out and was masturbating as I rubbed my crotch against his face. I can't remember how long this went on, but eventually, I had the most earth-shattering orgasm I'd ever had. My bother also moaned loudly and came.

This then became a regular occurrence. Usually, as soon as our parents left the house, I would sit on Mark's face and rub my crotch on his face until orgasm; mark would masturbate until he came too. Sometimes we became quite brazen and would get in from school, and if the coast was clear, go to one of our bedrooms and do our little thing. Over time, if I were wearing jeans or trousers, I would take them off and watch as Mark licked my panties as I rubbed myself on his face. On one occasion, I reversed and took hold of my brother's cock, my first, and wanked him off the orgasm.

On a couple of occasions I would be in my room studying at my desk and Mark would come in and stand behind me. I allowed him to put his hands in my blouse or T-Shirt and feel my bare breasts. He would be rubbing his crotch against my back as he did. On one occasion he came into my bathroom as I was in the bath, he stood next to bath and looked at my nude body for a couple of minutes, I think we talked about school. He then knelt down and felt my tits for ages in the end he washed them with a flannel. His hand did go under the water to feel my pussy but I stopped him.

It all ended when I was eighteen and due to go to college. I'd had a few drinks and was randy. I went into Mark's bedroom and raised my nightie as I sat on his face; only this time I'd taken my underwear off. Mark went wild, licking and probing my pussy, the feelings were incredible, and I came multiple times. I am a little ashamed we ended up in the sixty-nine position, and I tasted my first cock. It's terrible to think now that the first penis I touched and sucked was my little brother's!! I'd been drinking and was on a sexual high that night. It was such a shock when he came into my mouth. I didn't expect there to be so much spunk or for it to taste as foul as it did. I knew girlfriends were lying when they said it tasted like yoghurt!! It tasted like warm salty swimming bathwater, acrid and bleachy; I didn't like it much and have never allowed anybody else to come in my mouth since.

Ten years later, we are still close and sometimes laugh about our i****tual antics as teens. We both now have long term loving partners; however, even now, I sometimes fantasize when I'm being licked out or fucked that it's my brother and not my partner 

Clothesline Panties

This all started in the early 70's through to thhe 80's.
I had been masturbating for a couple of years by this time so it didn't take much to make me horny.
An old lady and her 30 something year old daughter lived in the house next door.
I was playing in my backyard one day when I saw the neighbors had hung their laundry out to dry. My eyes went straight to the bras and panties that were hanging on the line and my small cock started getting hard.
That night I snuck out of my house, went to the neighbors clotheline, slid my pants down to expose my hard cock and took a pair of the full back nylon panties and wrapped them around my cock. I was in heaven.
while rubbing my cock with one pair I took another pair and put it to my nose.
With the breeze blowing across my balls, the feel of the smooth nylon panties up and down my cock and with the the smell of freshly washed panties I blew my load.
I was hooked.
That was the start of me sneaking out at night and cumming on all types of panties, from teens to granny panties, it did not matter who's they were.
Still love pantie 50 years later

New To Blow Jobs And He Came In My Mouth Without A Warning

Rewind to a long long time ago, I was 14, almost 15 (yes, a week before I turned 15). I gave blowjobs before but the thought of having cum in my mouth always grossed me out back then. No worries, I'm a big girl now and I learned to get it in my mouth and swallow easily. But back then: hell no no no... and no no no again!!!

I was curious and exploring and experiencing guys. As most girls my age, I was more into a bit older guys. Guys too old according to my parents, but hey, I was a young girl, and I didn't care what my parents said. Sooooo.. .shocking, but I had a short relationship with a 19 year old boy. Ooopssie, yes, that's way old.

He was sweet, but tough, smoked, drank, had tattoos and he repeatedly said he wanted to have sex with me. But I didn't do that yet when I was 14. So one afternoon when I met him after school and he asked me to suck him, and I gladly obeyed.

It was not my first blowjob and not my first blowjob for him but he always pulled back or warned me so I wouldn't get the yucky stuff in my mouth. But this time was different, he also held my head which was kinda hot. But after a few minutes I felt something thick, goey and yucky in my mouth and I wanted to pull back but he kept my head pressed down. Then he pulled back and said "sorry, I came quicker than I expected".

I immediately spit the cum out and I was totally grossed out. I had the gag or vomit response but I didn't really really vomit. I had tears in my eyes from the gagging as it was sooo nasty. It tasted really really nasty. In hindsight I am sure he did it on purpose. Yeah, that was no fun. I broke up with him not long after that.

Later on I learned to like or at least to enjoy cum, but not back then.

Peeping Tom On My Sister

Okay I am not too proud on this one but I will want to confess or at least share. I hope this will be acceptable here.

I was a very shy boy growing up, very introvert, did not like to play outside. As an early teenager with hormones raging through my body I often felt confused. The internet was non existent back then and porn was not really available. Lingerie models from brochures were as good as it ever got.

I have a sister who was 3 years younger and when I was 14 (and she was 11), out of the blue I decided I would try to peep through the keyhole of her bedroom after her taking a shower. I was waiting in my room until I heard the shower go off. I know she would usually walk to her bedroom with a big towel covering her body. I felt nervous and it felt a bit wrong what I was about to do. I still decided I would try to do it.

After I heard her bedroom door close, I quietly opened my bedroom and I kneeled down in front of the keyhole of her room. She still had her towel on and was looking for clothes. Suddenly she threw her towel off and I saw her little butt from behind. My heart beat very very fast and when she turned around with some clothes in her hands I was very surprised she already had some pubic hair on her little slit. I was in shock, so surprised! Her little boobs also looked amazing with pretty decent size nipples.

I was HOOKED! Over the roughly 5 years after that first encounter I peeped on her through the keyhole almost every chance I had. I saw her develop. Her pubic hair began to grow more and more just like her boobs and hips. She had beautuful boobs. It was amazing to view. I think I peeped on her until she was about 16. When she was a bit over 14 or close to 15 she began to trim or cut her pubic hair in front of the mirror in her bedroom. She was dating a guy then, so maybe that was why. But her trimming her teenage pussy was mesmerizing to see. I never saw her masturbate but I did see her "feeling her pussy" a few times. Her bed was in the other side of the room so I never got to see her "in bed", so to speak. But all of this turned me on very much.

I love and respect my sister but I know this is kinda wrong. I am sure more guys my age peeped at their sister. Out of respect for my sister I did not jerk off or had dirty thoughts of her until she was a bit over 13. Then I could not hold it anymore and began to jerk off back in my bedroom. I never jerked off while watching her, only after watching her. Seeing her teenage fuckbox and beautiful boobs was amazing to see! Well, it was not a fuckbox back then as she was a virgin but you know what I mean.

My First Time

Back when I was 16 I went with some guys to a party at a house in the burbs. The guys had two rooms labeled slut 1 and slut 2. The lights were out, the girls were blindfolded and naked. My friend went into slut 1 and I took slut 2. I'd never been laid before so I was nervous but I wanted to get some pussy. She asked if I wanted sucked first, then she laid back and I put my cock to her lips and after finding what she wanted she sucked me hard. I shot off in her mouth in a minute. She said she wouldn't say anything and to wait for a bit. She then started sucking me and in about 10 minutes I was hard again. She was very chubby, big, really big titties, 2 inch wide areola and nice hard nipples that were just a little pinker than her skin. She had a shaved pussy and she spread out, I got between her legs and when I started rapid fire fucking, and slipping out (she'd had cum all over her and the bed) she pulled up her legs and wrapped her feet behind my ass cheeks and held me in. I slowed down and kissing her tits, and even her feeling my way up to her face, I fucked her about 20 minutes and shot my load. I wiped my cock and balls and left her laying there spread out for the next guy.

My parents were away for the weekend, and the next day about 10 in the morning my sister comes into my room and jostles me awake. She is 2 years older than me and always gave me shit, but this time, I look up and she is standing there naked.
"Did you know it was me when you fucked me last night?" she asked.
"Yeah"
"How did you know"
"Your voice, and I saw you when I opened the door coming in and leaving, and I've seen you in the shower sometimes"
She pulled the covers off me, and sat down next to me, grabbing my naked cock.
"Did you like it? " She asked. Adding "You knew it was your sister you were fucking, did you like it?"
"Yes, a lot, it felt really good"
"Was that your first time?"

I told her it was, as sad as I was to admit it. She told me she thought it was me when I started talking when I was fucking her. In the middle of my hemming and hawing, she stradled me and stuck one of her big chubby tits in my mouth. I started sucking. She switched, then brought her pussy up to my mouth and told me, not asked, told me to lick her pussy. She showed me how to lick her all over, then concentrate on her clit. All the while she was jacking on my cock, I wanted her again and I told her.
"Not till I cum" she said
She told me she hadn't cum but three times the whole evening getting fucked all night. She wanted it, and wanted it now. She came three times, then got on top of me riding my cock with me playing with her tits. She started cumming again and leaned over and kissed me and I came too.
"Cumming in your sisters pussy. . . you like it don't you"
I could barely talk but uttered a "yeah".

That started my early sexual education. We still fuck a lot, we both live together, she did stop going to get gangbanged but still fucks around with a lot of guys. Most of the time I add my cum in her sloppy pussy and clean her out. I've also gotten her ass which she said no one ever did but me.

I know it will end sometime, but not for a while hopefully.

Me And My Only One

Some things from my past. At 11 at a sleepover with my best friend we licked each others pussy. At 13 at a boy girl party I sucked a boy's dick on a dare. At 16 I went on my first car date and showed my pussy to a boy. At 16 I licked my best friend's pussy, all wet and found her vagina and her clit. No more boys for me

At 18 on my high school graduation trip to Europe with my best friend's family her mother told us to enjoy our bodies, we had a separate room so we really enjoyed our bodies every night. College took us away from home and we roomed together in an off campus dorm. We slept together in the single bed, and couldn't wait for bed time when we hugged and rubbed our tits together.

Post college we moved to the city, rented a room in uptown and discovered short shorts and short skirts and dancing at an all girl's club. Pussies were shaved and two size too small thongs were worn all day. Girls girls girls were the order of the day. Hot, big tits and small, long legs and tight asses, thick brown Hispanic girls from the CrossFit club, hot tits and no bras. Girls girls girls.

Went home for Christmas, slept apart at our parent's homes, for the first time in a long long time, big brother got handy, touched my girl, she got hot and big brother took her down. We are back in the city, in our room, hot in bed, had pussy for dinner, sucked her hot tittie for breakfast, wondering whether big brother knocked her up.

Girls all around but only one girl gets me hot, she sleeps with me, my one and only, my very best friend, my one and only lover, the one that's in my heart. I love her, and if my big brother knocked her up, she'll have my baby, I told him that's how it's going to be.

Losing My Virginity

I was “cool” because I had an older boyfriend. We made out, he fingered me, we even started making out with a friend of his. I liked it, it was fun. They’d kiss me, kiss and suck on my tits… one night we were really in to it. My boyfriend was kissing me and fingering me, his friend was sucking on my nipple. My bf pushed my head to his cock, and I happily obliged. I’d sucked them off before and was expecting another night of cocks in my mouth. I was bobbing up and down and I felt his friend pull my panties down, and he started talking about how wet my pussy was. I couldn’t really hear, but I heard my bf say “go for it” and I swear I heard him say “pop that cherry”. Well I felt him slide in, and it didn’t hurt, so I thought oh I must’ve already had it broken by the fingers or something. Then I felt a huge push and a bit of pain and heard them laughing about how oh no that was it. It hurt for a second but then it felt ok. My bf seemed so turned on seeking me take his friends cock, he held my head against him, balls to my chin as he came in my mouth. He never seemed mad, but it was a little weird that his friend was the one to actually pop my cherry. My bf eventually popped my anal cherry so I feel like it was ok.

My Widower Neighbor

In the early 80s I had gotten an under the table job as a busser at a family friend’s diner a few nights a week. I was too young to legally work, but I looked much older, already having D cups, no one ever questioned it. I walked home, usually a little late, sometimes as late as midnight, past a big fancy (yet fixer upper) house that had been empty for a long time, and was finally purchased. The rumor was that it was a widower, a retired contractor who’d bought the house to fix up as a distraction to get over his grief after his wife had died suddenly in a car accident. You could hear construction during the day, but no one ever saw him, so he was kind of a mystery.

But on my late night walks home I would see him on his porch! He usually kept his porch light off, but sometimes I would see his cigarette and know he was there. I started waving, he’d wave back. He looked kind of handsome, even though I could tell he was my grandpa’s age. I decided I was going to meet him.

One night as I was leaving work I stole a bottle of wine from the kitchen and headed to the new neighbor’s house. I walked up his big staircase to his porch and asked if I could join him. He smiled and said he never turned down wine with a pretty girl and got up to get us glasses. I couldn’t help but notice that construction had left him with a great muscular body, he was wearing sweats and it looked like he had something big down the front of his pants, like he was getting hard. I was sure it was just shadow or something, but when he came back out with the glasses it was impossible to not notice he had a big cock. I remember smiling and looking up at him and he was looking at me, smiling right back, like he had seen me look at his cock and hope it was real.

We talked and drank and smoked a few cigarettes. His name was Oliver, the rumors were true, he was a widower, he was planning on flipping the house when he was done, so he’d only be there for a couple years. I told him about the diner, I tried to not say anything that would give away my age, completely forgetting I’d pulled the wine out of a school backpack and was still wearing my uniform. He talked about being in WW2, so I knew he was in his 60s, but he looked younger, and I’d never been with a guy fifty years older than me so I was super curious. The drunker we got the dirtier our conversation got. I told him about the sex I was having with multiple guys at once, he told me he comes out to the porch late at night to stroke his cock. I made a big point to tell him how much I’d love to see, and SWALLOW that!

I got up to use the bathroom, where I took off my bra and panties, unbuttoned my top enough so my boobs almost just flopped out, and touched my pussy to be sure it was dripping wet. When I came back out, sure enough, he was leaning back in his chair, cock out, slowly stroking and rocking. I couldn’t believe how beautiful his cock was, it was maybe 6 inches, and just so thick. My plan had been to sit on his lap, but after seeing his cock I went straight to my knees, brushed his hands away and started trying to get it all in my mouth. He could barely keep it together, he was grunting and saying oh fuck and I could feel his balls tightening. After only about two or three minutes I felt him shudder and press his cock a little deeper in my throat and just EXPLODE. I knelt there for about a minute while I made sure I had gulped it all. He was winded, but I knew he could go again.

I sat on his lap to let him cool down for a minute, making sure to sit my super wet pussy right on his still somewhat hard cock, and started to kiss him. He grabbed my tits as we kissed and touched tongues, his mouth working its way to my tits. He was loving my tits, telling me how big and beautiful and soft they are, I love getting my tits sucked so it was heaven to feel him latch on to my nipple as I rubbed my pussy down on to him. I guided his hand between my legs and upon feeling how wet I was with his hand he grabbed his cock and pushed it up in to me. He kept saying oh fuck and we shouldn’t be doing this but also moaning and grunting and he never stopped sucking my tits or rubbing my clit. I felt my back start to arch and that wonderful tingle start moving up from my clenching toes. “I’m cumming! I’m cumming! Don’t stop! Don’t stop!”, I pleaded in to his ear. As I felt the orgasm take over and my body shudder, I heard him moan so satisfyingly, and as he twitched inside me I knew he’d cum too. We sat for a few minutes, his cock still inside, kissing, rubbing my clit and making me twitch and clench lol, lightly sucking on my now red almost sore nipples.

When I stood up I felt his cum rush out of me and down my legs. “Oh that’s so fucking hot” he said and just looked at my cum drenched pussy and legs for a minute. I buttoned up my blouse and grabbed my backpack, I was going to get my panties and bra from the bathroom, but he told me to leave them so I’d have to come back. He kissed me goodbye and whispered to think of him as my legs rubbed together on my walk home.

It became a regular part of my walk home. Sometimes we’d go inside his house, sometimes he’d eat my pussy, sometimes he’d bend me over the railing of the porch and we’d look out over the street at night while he fucked me from behind. We had a wonderful time while he lived there, and I miss him so much.