Does your spouse have hidden a hidden past? Does your spouse have secrets, or skeletons in their closets that you've just uncovered? Did you see or witness something you shouldn't have? Are there thing about your spouse that you would never admit to knowing? This is the place to confess all those things about your spouse that you need to get off your chest.

My Daughter Has Officially Left Me

I had posted a few days ago about how my adult daughter, who I was in a relationship with, started staying out late. After a lot of sadness, we talked openly and she said she would be with me until she settled down with a man closer to her own age.

She shocked me when she moved out yesterday. Her story is always changing. Now it's clear she was fooling around with this guy for a while.

When you've invested all that I have in a relationship, this kind of infidelity hurts even more.

My daughter originally seduced ME, when she returned home after college. I tried to stay faithful her mom but the temptation was too great. Then, I tried to keep things discreet, but she wanted to get caught. At the time, she was jealous that I still had to sleep with her mom occasionally, to keep up appearances. My daughter wanted me all to herself.

She arranged it so her mom walked in on us making love. Of course the marriage ended. Though I was happy for the new sexual energy and the new love we shared.

I helped her change her last name and we moved to a different state, to a city where no one knew us. This allowed us to live like a regular couple.

It was all working out so well until a few weeks ago.

For the second time in days, I am heartbroken. This time there is no coming back, she has moved in with another man. I lost my wife and now I have lost my daughter. I will live the rest of my life alone.

Last time I posted, some people were supportive (thank you, you have no idea how much your compassion meant to me) but one or two were really mean in the comments. Once again, this was a consensual, adult relationship that my daughter pursued. I made big sacrifices for our relationship. You can disagree with this kind of relationship but don't make it out to be something sinister and coercive. You don't know me. You didn't know my daughter, my lover.

Now she is gone and all I can do is cry, and hopefully drink myself into a stupor to dull the pain. Please pray for me.

  • Unexpected

    A couple weeks ago, I decided to surprise my wife for lunch. I showed up to pick her up, but watched her and a male coworker get in his car. Not thinking anything of it, I decided, I'd follow them and join them for lunch. It wasn't uncommon for me to take my wife out for lunch, though my work had made it difficult lately and I always gave her advance notice.

    So I followed them (not directly because of traffic) and instead of a restaurant they go to a bowling alley parking lot, which is odd, because it doesn't open until later in the day. I pulled in to the neighboring lot. And watched with a growing pit in my stomach. I couldn't see too well, so I got the phone out and max zoomed.

    It was just in time to see my wife drop her head into his lap. Through the camera I could see the back of her head bob up and down. Occasionally he put his hand on her head. As I'm watching, I have a flood of emotions: anger, hurt, sadness, but I couldn't stop watching. After I few minutes, I realized I had a super hard erection. Was I turned on at watching my wife suck another man?! After several more minutes, he seemed to tense up and then relax. Seconds later my wife raised her head and wiped her mouth. I then realized he just came in her mouth and she swallowed it.

    The next thought was oh my god!, she always came home and makes out with me, before we would have sex (our sex life was great). I came back around quitting time and she left to come home. That day, I refused her by saying I had a migraine. I ordered a telephoto lens for my phone so I could get evidencence for the divorce.

    I watched and recorded her giving him a blow job everyday that week. Each day I got less angry and more horny. Our sex life didn't change, though I refused to kiss her when she came home. It was still great and there was a lot of it.

    The next week I caught myself rubbing my hard on as I watched her perform on him. I was starting to get turned on by her sucking him off. By mid-week, I gave in and beat off to them. I also became concerned the wife would figure out I knew and now that I was turned on by it, I went back to making out with her, knowing his dick and cum was in her mouth. It turned me on even more.

    Friday was different. Instead of her blowing him, they got out and into the back seat. He obviously took off his pants and she hiked up her dress. He then got behind her and entered her. I watched as my wife submitted to him while he conquered my wife. Before long she was lurching back and forth on his dick. I knew that while they fucked, she wasn't mine, she was his and that made me cum.

    I was so incredibly confused on how this could turn me on. I took a huge risk when she got home. After I made out with her, I pushed against the door, gave her my phone, told her to push play, and then sunk to my knees, threw her left leg of over my right shoulder and proceeded to lick and eat her clean. The taste of his and her juices was surprisingly delicious. When she realized she knew I knew and was watching her get fucked by him while I worshiped her used wet, sloppy pussy, she blurted out "God, I love you so much!" And pulled me in with her leg. It was then the best sex ever.

    We didn't get divorced, we instead talked and now have an open and swinging relationship. We love having sex with each other while watching videos of us have sex with others. It surprisingly made our marriage so much better and stronger. She is already bisexual, since I enjoy eating my and others cum off of and out of her, she wants me to try it straight from the source. The though of sucking a dick with my wife is honestly exciting! Guess I'm not straight anymore.

    Once A Man Has Rights To You, He Always Has Rights To You

    He asked me if I was willing to go along with him and get married. I caved and we had a court house wedding. After we returned from the weekend honeymoon he showed me the house, and gave me the rules. Hopefully this was worth it.

    Ten years later, things in the past, he called to see how I was doing. I was okay, had a job, paid my bills, kept my nose clean. He asked, for old times sake, would I see him. People don't change, within a minute he wanted a kiss, then sex. Like the old days when we were married.

  • I Wanted To See His Reaction After All These Years Of Marriage

    We are certainly not as sexually active as we once were but we try, I know most of it is me and this damn thing they call menopause, just amazes me how my sex drive seems to have just gone away. I was reading a book and got an idea from it, he was going to either run right over to me or ask what the hell I was doing. I got on our bed laying on my back about the time he comes home from work, heard him coming into the house and slid myself so my head was off the bed waiting for him to come into the room and see me laying there with my mouth open ready for him. My first guess was right as I saw him almost tear his pants off getting out of them then his balls filled my view in seconds has he put his cock right into my waiting mouth. The whole thing turned him on immensely, he got an erection quickly and caressed my breasts the whole time telling me this was incredible and would have never thought I would do this for him. I enjoyed just seeing him act like he was in his twenties again and felt very desired by him, I did the next day and have repeated it several times ever since. He has even come home and I see the look on his face and tell him to give me a minute or two then I go upstairs and get into position for him. It all may seem silly sounding but eventually I will get back into my sexual desire and I think this is helping me to get there also.

    I've Been Outsourcing My Marriage

    When I turned 35, I had a sort of crisis. I was exhausted. I was unfulfilled. I was unhappy. The culprit? Marriage and all the expectations it places on women.

    I wised up and have spent the last year outsourcing my diverse roles as a wife:

    1. Cooking - Hired a professional chef who works Monday through Friday and leaves heat-and-serve meals for the weekends. He also makes the kids' school lunches.

    2. Cleaning - Hired a cleaning service to come Mondays and Fridays. Monday is general cleaning and Friday is laundry, plus touch-ups of high-traffic areas like bathrooms and kitchen.

    3. Childcare - I hired 3 nannies, who divide up after-school and weekday evening shifts plus all-day weekend shifts.

    4. Family obligations - I hired a personal assistant who tracks birthdays, buys g*fts, and fills out cards (it's a long list, my husband, our two kids, my parents, my in-laws, several of my college friends, several of his frat bros).

    5. Travel - I hired a fractional travel agent (she works about 10% of the time for us) to plan and book vacations, inbound visits from my parents and my in-laws, etc. Family visitors are accommodated at a local hotel, where we get a corporate rate. This reduces wear-and-tear on the house and gives our guests the flexibility to come and go as they please, eat when they want, etc.

    6. Sex - I set up an account with a professional service. My husband can choose different girls on their Web site. He gets 3 blowjobs a week, with swallowing, 2 fucks, and 1 extended session of cuddling, making out, and breast fondling. Once a month and on his birthday and Christmas, I cover the no-condom fee so he can cum inside the girl he fucks that day. Once a month I also pay the "college-age" supplement so he can enjoy some under-25 pussy.

    7. Sex for me - I set up an account with a service that mostly does bachelorette parties but can also supply attractive men for one-on-one appointments. I get an hour with a young, muscular stud Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night, plus a midweek lunchtime quickie. Separately, I get an evening of cuddling and intimacy with a man around my own age, on Tuesdays (least expensive day of the week).

    8. Handyman - I have an account with a handyman service. This gentleman does (or subcontracts for) all home repairs, takes the car for oil changes, etc.

    My stress levels have dropped enormously. Every member of the family is happy. I feel as if I am 10 years younger. And I no longer daydream about divorce and abandoning this band of leaches known as my husband and my children.

    I'm also performing much better at work. The raises and bonuses I've earned help me to afford all the outsourcing.

    It feels as if my husband and I are better friends than ever before. Kids are content and well-adjusted, too. No arguments about homework or grades or finishing everything on the plate before having dessert or going to bed on-time.

    This is living!

  • Looks Aren't Everything - Or Anything, Really

    I married a n overweight, 'plain jane' lady who had no trouble whatsoever keeping me in my expensive rubber bondage-bag, as long as I could fund her passion for archeology, and 'perform' for the oddities of all genders that she brought home, to enjoy wine and cheese parties, while I writhed in silent V.... induced frustration, on the floor, for whatever and whoever decided to add to my evident "misery" often with a tireless wanking, to much applause and encouragement, and copious loads of white slime pumped down my throat, to much vocal encouragement...she used to laugh once we were on our own again, and say "a classic case of be careful what you wish for - you might just get it!" and reassure me that there would be a similar gathering, next Friday evening, then bid me good night, sleep tight, before locking me in my room, still in the bag...I had guit my job when we married, as she came from money, though I never saw any of it, other than its result on our 'social life"...I think this will soon become a poermanent arrangement, and I'm both excited, and fearful...

    Don't Know How I Feel About It

    I recently found out that my husband has been sharing my nudes online for years. Sometimes when he was taking pictures of me I questioned if he was and he'd ask is that what you want me to do? In the moment when he was playing with me and I was horny I'd say yes. But I always thought it was just sex talk and nothing else. I can't deny it turns me on but I'm super nervous about it especially since he showed my face on many of the pictures and videos. And its not like he was degrading me, he said things like this is my beautiful wife in the shower, watch my sexy wife play with herself. I think he is proud to show me off and not trying to degrade or humiliate me. I really don't mind I guess, it is a turn on. I'm turned on just talking about it. I just wish my face wasn't on there. I guess I need to tell him I know and just ask if he will remove or hide my face. Maybe tell him it gets me turned on tell him I want him to keep doing posting my pictures just to please hide my identity. He's a really great man and treats me better than anyone else ever has. Im just a unsure how to handle this.

    Blowjobs

    There is something oddly satisfying about giving a bj. Never really understood why it’s so satisfying but I’ve always loved to suck my husband’s dick.

    Anytime he asks for a bj her gets one or anything up I’m wanting to give one he’ll let me

    Just the act alone gets me turned on. Seeing his hard dick up close and using my mouth to make him cum. My husband has a really nice cut dick with a big head. Perfect for sucking I think.

    Car head is something I’ll do too. He’s gotten many bjs on long car rides. My husband used to only wear briefs but obviously those don’t give easy access to his dick. So last year he started wearing boxers on long car rides that way I had easy access to his dick. Now it’s as easy as opening his pants then pulling his dick out the fly of his boxers.

    We still have plenty of sex but I’ve definitely giving him lots of bjs throughout our whole marriage.

    Best Decision I Made

    My wife and I hit Costco last night after we hit happy hour. Katie had some booze in her and she lets me get show her assets off with the help of a little liquid courage. She had on a pair of running shorts that purposely showed her cheeks and made her big ass look absolutely amazing. She has a nice rack as well but her ass turns heads. I like to constantly feel on her ass if she is in booty shorts watch out because I’m going to slide a finger in and that’s exactly what I did. I kept finger fucking her every chance I got when people where not around and towards the end with an old guy watching me finger her. He followed is the last 5 minutes of the trip.

    When we got to our Tahoe she was worked up and I took her in the back seat and unloaded in her. We both absolutely love car sex. We married 3 years ago after a few years of dating. Katie was actually friends with my ex girlfriend and I met her through my ex. Katie is a rather tall bigger girl she’s 5 foot 7 pushing 160 lbs. not fat at all she has curves in all the right places I’m an ass man and that was the first thing I noticed the very first time I met her. At that time I was dating her friend but when we met there was a definite spark. We never fooled around when I was dating her friend although I tried i always got my hand smacked and told nope. Lots of flirting but never when went past flirting.

    When my ex and I split it was a few months and I had zero contact with any other friends. I was the one who broke up with my ex. She was very controlling and had a lot of growing up to do before she could ever be in a relationship. Lots of arguments I was always accused of cheating when I wasn’t probably could have and should have. But it went bad of course she went around and spread all kinds of rum and I just ignored it until she went away. Finally heard she was dating someone else and her focus was no longer on me. I laid low for a while and started hanging out with some buddies. While out one evening I ran into Katie and some of my exs friends. I went to make a quick exit and was stopped by Katie. She was in a fitted shirt and jeans with heels. Hot damn she looked fucking amazing and I told her just that. Very standoffish at first but soon enough I was at a table with her. Of course she brought up what her friend had said about me. My friend who was with me called her out saying that she was a flat out liar and I was nothing but cordial with her. My buddy then took my phone and showed her the text message thread from my ex and her and she went into detail on how she was going to get back at me. Katie changed after that and some of her other friends read them messages as well. I just said can we just let it go I don’t want to get involved with her anymore I just want to move on. You guys know the truth and let’s leave it at that. I was surprised when a couple of her friends sent me DMs a short time later while I was still chatting with Katie. I followed Katie like a puppy dog and she liked it.

    That night we hit a small diner had some dinner and went and hung out at my place. We messed around but we didn’t have sex. I asked her out again we went out and that was the start of us. The very first time we did anything I had been rubbing on her ass at the bar and she pulled me to the car and rode me like a bull. I never understood when people say they know when they find that person and they know there the one. I found that the minute we started having sex. Besides being a great fuck we got along she has a sense of humor and soon found out she is a closest freak. When she finally moved in with me I helped her in pack her stuff and she introduced me to her box of toys. Holy shit sitting back and watching her use these things on herself makes for staying in for the night well worth it. My buddies didn’t understand why I would want to stay home on a Friday night instead of getting hammered. Katie encouraged me to still hang with my friends which I do. But I prefer to stay home and watch her dildo herself while she had a ruby red heart shaped butt plug in her. Getting a blow job while she has her 2 other holes filled with toys makes for a steamy night. You bet that I put a ring on that finger with the quickness and put a nice big rock on her finger. The reward I got that night was fucking amazing. I have was more total and will later. Apologise for the grammar as I’m doing this form my phone.

  • Helping One Girl At A Time Become Sexually Empowered

    Even today people get so hung up on a guy having a little someone on the side. It never bothered me. My only condition is I have to meet her and approve.

    My husband 'likes' a certain type of girl. I have my type for him. I keep my eye out, preferably young. Older women tend to get demanding. I feel a domestic type, with strong dominant male visions, make the best girlfriends for him. Religious girls are best, and are usually virgins.

    I help my husband break in a new girlfriend. I do the non sex part, introduction, softening up, preparing her to accept him. He takes care of breaking her in as a sexual partner.

    We don't ever talk to girls that aren't at least college girls. We live near a large University and many girls need a way to break the ice and become sexually active.