I've been married for almost 25 years. Right before we got engaged, my wife cheated on me. Since we've been married, Ive never been faithful to her. I just don't think she loves me. Anyway, about 30 months ago, I met a 22 year-old lady who worked at a retail store. We have been seeing each other since. I was 49 at the time. She is also married. Thing is, over the first 2 years during the "affair", the young lady cheated on me a few times. It has caused us total heartache. If we didn't love each other, we would have broken up, and she insists that she will never cheat on me again.

I'm not a 50 year-old perve crazy over a hot young thing. Sometimes, even with the age difference, people can be level headed and in love. But am I a total fool? I sure feel like one.

Any thoughts?