im 21 and I have a bf but rarely together. And just to keep the heat up, *my man is quite a reader* so i tease him through txt. And we decide to have a diff version of phone sex regularly. It was through text msgs. At first its like stupid but my man actually liked it, most of the time he wud start teasing me. Its weird haha, but i just wanted to share. Now that his here, and oh boy! Bed scenes are wow!! I think the text teasing thing worked, and helped us perform better. Who knew we can be wilder haha :) peace!