WEll to start off my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 10 months now..and acutually prolly like in december he cheated on me with this girl he goes to school with..and the thing that hurt the most is that he couldn't even tell me that he cheated on me..i had to hear it from someone else..then when he decided to tell me the truth it wasn't even the truth but just some more lies..and i was stupid for not braking up with him..but i felt the only way i could forgive and forget was by cheatin him back..so that what i did...and obviously that wasn't the right thing to do...but i didn't want to brake up with him...I'm confused and i don't know what to do...because i think that he's still cheatin on me just hiding it better and i don't know how to tell him that i don't want to be with him anymore..??Please help!!!

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by Anonymous on Oct 13, 2001 at 11:15 AM

This one is easy ... he's a boyfriend, not a husband. Just tell him you're leaving him, and leave. Don't look back.

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by Anonymous on Oct 15, 2001 at 9:02 PM

This is an easy one-dump his ass and do it fast!!

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by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2001 at 3:03 PM

Let me tell you something from one young lady to another.

Empower yourself!!! Don't confront him again, just leave him & don't feel as though you are obligated to explain yourself.
Leave w/o explanation! You don't have to be a bitch about it. Just maintain by being calm, cool and collective. Show him a side of you he's never seen before and hey, you might just surprise yourself.

Furthermore, it's okay to be single these days as a woman. "WE" women are independant in this day and age. Don't be afraid to be single. Enjoy it! Go get a facial, take a vacation, have girls night out, have a day just you & mom, read a book, pig out (don't overdo it), walk your dog or your neighbors, go watch the sunset at the beach, paint you toenails, get a new hair do or take a luxurious bubble bath!

What I'm saying is ; Get to know yourself! Don't be afraid of who you are or being single. Enjoy your freedom while it lasts.

-Make sure you leave some mystery about yourself. You don't have to give yourself completely until your ready to trust someone again that intamately!

-Don't ever keep yourself in a situation you don't want to be in

-What worse to stay where your not wanted or not appreciated???

-You gotta kiss a lot of "toads" before you get to Mr.Right I should know, I am 30 now and only just recently found Mr.Right who is now my fiance`. I'm glad I waited.

-Don't allow yourself to be treated like your second best when you should be the most important thing in your mans life.

Giving yourself to someone completely is a very powerful thing, make sure you have a man who appreciates you the way you should be.

Tell your current stupid-ass boyfriend that he should be so lucky as to have had someone like you in his life and one day when he wises up he will regret losing you and being so stupid!

Or like I said, don't bother saying anything at all except that you are leaving him for good and hey, maybe, one day if he is smart, he will figure out his own mistakes! Just maybe!

Ok, princess, that should about do it! Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself because no one is going to do it for you!

Good luck! GRRRR......

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