I am 29 years old and have been married for 12 years. I am in a really awkard situation and think by confessing will feel better and maybe start to develop some lasting resolve.

To begin with sex with husband has not been good at all. It has not ever been good.

Well, my husband set up a audio recording device in our bedroom when he to work to see if me and his cousin/best friend were having sex. Well we were and what he found when he listened to that recording was a very long sex session in which I had multiple orgasms. He did not tell he caught me he kept this secret and got several recording and then confronted me. He was very surprised to learn this has been going on 8 years.

My husband said he realizes my sex life is bad but he feels fulfilled sexually by me. We have agreed to kep things as they are, his cousin/best friend doent know that my husband knows about it.

My husband still goes over to his house to watch football games like nothing is going on. His cousin/best friend still comes over once a week and we have sex.