Now gf is pregnant, and as far a she knows it is from her husband. But it could easily be mine.
She's been wanting a baby and is pretty thrilled. Do I say something or just let her think her husband is the father?
Tell her that you are not fixed. Either way she will most likely keep the baby and deal with the consequences of the affair. You should both come clean about it to your wife/husband. They end up finding out most of the time anyway...it sucks being caught but it will hurt more even later...and your wife might be hurt more for her inability to have her own...reguardless, prepare for a seperation. And no matter how much getting caught hurts...take it from me, being cheated on hurts even more. Come clean, and stop fucking around.
Screw the last reply, It depends on what you want. Do you wat to know if that is your kid and r going to take care of it and screw up both your lives or are you doing it to just be honest , if so then it is over rated and you won't feel n/e better you'll both just make your significant other feel worse. maybe you should just be honest with your fuck buddy and decide with her, what she wants to do? If your not going to be there then don't even bother fucking things up even worse. Take it from me but then call it all off as well.
If you ever loved your wife you should come clean. You are the dirt bag that was fucking around, why should she stupidly stand by you while you may have fathered a child with another woman?
You shit!
You purposely knocked up a married woman under false pretenses.
You should have divorced your wife and married a fertile woman if you wanted children that much.
Tell your wife and let her divorce you.
It'll be the one good thing you've done.
It's true, I suppose. But I didn't know my wife couldn't conceive until after we were married. Can't dump her for that, and for that matter I don't want to dump her.
But I guess I always wanted to make a baby, so that is probably why I did this stuff.
She's broken it off anyways, says things are different now that she's going to be a mother. I'm not going to tell her. She's really happy, and I'm not going to take that away from her.
And for all anyone knows, it is her husband's baby in the first place. Nothing gets better if I tell her, lots of things get worse.
Takes two to tango, as it were. I'm not seeing anything here to be ashamed of. If hubby was everything she needed she'd never have let you nail her. If she had concerns she'd have insisted on safe sex.
She did and didn't and she's married for cripes sake. You owe her nothing.
Now that she is going to be a mom she wants to do the right thing, she broke it off with you and you didn't turn into some sort of a sick stalker. You'd be a fool to ruin her and your life on the off chance that you are the biological daddy.
Having said all of that, this was a bad deal and you should take steps to ensure that this kind of thing never happens again.