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My wife (of 1 year) feels cheated on when I look at porn. I love seeing and hearing people have sex and seeing pictures and videos of women who want to share their bodies (and self loving) with the world. It's difficult sometimes and weighs heavily on me.

I often miss that small pleasure, but love my wife and wish I didn't want to do something that hurts her.

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# 12464 - by Anonymous / October 21, 2012
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by Anonymous on Oct 21, 2012 at 3:13 PM

She needs to get off her high horse and be glad you're not doing worse. Human beings were not meant to be monogamous. It's not natural. Then again, it's not natural to shave and not stink, but it's doable.

Porn is natural and healthy. You have every ethical right to jerk off as much as you like so long as you're doing it so often it affects your ability in the bedroom.

It's impossible to desire only one person. You have a greater chance of being monogamous physically if you're treated with respect and given space to get off by looking at whatever you like.

You need to stand up for yourself and negotiate a way to get here to concede on this...less for the porn and more for the experience in negotiating with her and reassuring her in the face of her insecurity. This is worth making a stand for.

All successful marriages have a lot of compromises and negotiation. You both need to master this skill to thrive.

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by Anonymous on Oct 27, 2012 at 6:25 PM

I actually let my husband watch porn, I just turn around and go to sleep . If he xmcan make me happy for everything he does for me I will do this for him and more just to please himm.

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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2012 at 2:25 PM

As part of a healthy mariage you need to respect your wife's wishes. The first commentor was right in the negotiation part though, maybe after some time ou can yalk to your wife about watching porn together as a visual foreplay to your own sex. But if she is still against it you should respect her wishes and not look at it.

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