I will, on average, give about 30 blowjobs and have vaginal or anal sex about 10 times before I orgasm once. It always bothers me that I sneak off with a guy, suck him off, and then that's the end of it. I never do anything about it though, so I shouldn't complain. But imagine if it were the other way around?? You're a guy and you sneak off with a girl, eat her out, then you both walk away leaving you with a boner. Do this like 29 more times. Then fuck someone 10 more times and have her jump off of you each time as soon as she's finished. Sure the hardon will go down, but your balls will probably feel like they're going to explode or something right??

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by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2013 at 1:10 PM

guide them to the g spot. not too difficult for any man paying attention. you shouldn't have to want anymore, find a man who knows what he's doing.

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by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2013 at 1:40 PM

Guys are pretty much done after they orgasm. You got to get yours up front or whine after. Even for straight sex, you have to tell him to go down on you before or no sex, but here's thought, finger yourself during sex. Your clit put's you in charge of your own good time, if it's your own good time you're really looking for. That's why it's on the outside of you instead of the inside. If you just could look at things realistically you'd see the problem is with you, what you think of yourself that makes you go for things the way you do and hope that they'll take care of you. Is it getting off you're really looking for of someone who will think you're special and love you. If the latter, you're going about it all wrong.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2013 at 1:48 PM

FIRST WITH THE NUMBERS THING YOU SOUND LIKE A WHORE...
WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO ESTABLISH?
A PROBLEM LIKE THIS CAN BE FOR MANY REASONS INCLUDING STRESS LEVELS, PHYSICAL OR MENTAL ISSUES...
PLUS ANY EDUCATED PERSON WOULD GET THE SIMPLE POINT OF SWAPPING GUYS AS YOU MENTION YOU HAVE A BIG CHANCE OF GETTING AIDS BEFORE YOU RESOLVE THE ISSUE.
DOES IT REALLY TAKE SO MUCH TO UNDERSTAND?
DO YOU "LIKE" YOUR LIFE ?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2013 at 5:46 PM

^Caps lock is cruise control for cool.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 20, 2013 at 3:29 AM

I never said I was having sex with a ton of different guys, not that it's any of your business how many different ones I'm having sex with. I use protection anyway. I also said that I give about 30 blowjobs and have sex 10 times. I never gave a time frame, it's not like I have those all in one night (though that would be fun.)

And if I WERE having sex with 40 different guys over the span of like a week or less, I would be fine with that and I don't give a damn whether you think that's a good thing or not. You do not dictate morality and how many people I have sex with does not determine whether I or my life are good. My life isn't magically awesome if I have only had sex with one person, and it's not magically terrible if I've had sex with 1000.

But you of course assume that I'm like going down a lineup of 30 guys sucking each of them off and swallowing when in reality I'm giving maybe 1 blowjob a day to usually the same person and with a condom. Again, there would be nothing wrong if I were sucking off a lineup of 30 guys, that sounds like fun to me, but that's not what I'm doing.

In reality I only actively have sex with the same like 2 guys for a long period of time (sometimes 3, MAYBE more if I meet a guy I want to fuck without a relationship at a party or something), and I always use a condom. Then, roughly once per month on average (sometimes more sometimes less) I have an orgasm.

When I'm having sex, I'm not thinking about myself. I like to focus on who I'm having sex with and give them the best time I can. The reason this irritates me is because a lot of the time I have "quickies" and forget to take care of myself when I have the time or there's a dick close enough. It would help immensely if the guys I'm with were as invested in me as I am in them while we're fucking.

Generally though I'm not with a guy for romance and a serious relationship, generally the guy I'm with is because I think he's hot and I like squeezing his ass while he fucks me. I'm forgetful, and that's a big part of the reason I don't have as many orgasms as I'd like. The guys I'm with are mostly in it to get off, and I love making that happen even if they don't care as much about me. They're most likely not going to do anything about it if I don't bring it up, which is sad but there's not much I can do about that except bring it up, and as I said before I focus so much on them that I forget about myself, otherwise I'd have brought it up by now.

What I was trying to bring attention to was that this is a thing that happens. I know a lot of girls in similar positions who have sex/give blowjobs much more often than they actually orgasm. If guys cared as much about finding out what the person they're having sex with enjoys this might not happen as often. If the roles were changed and it was a lot of guys eating women out and having sex without thinking as much of themselves there would for a short time be a visual reminder of this, and probably a fair amount more physical pain from what I've heard.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 20, 2013 at 5:49 AM

Sadly I don't know you but I would be happy to give you an orgasm any time you wanted one. Not every guy thinks only of his own pleasure all the time. you just have to find the right one. I don't care if I come or not - if I don't come now I can come later - or tomorrow or whenever. I just enjoy eating pussy! Come round to my place and see!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 28, 2013 at 12:45 AM

More blowjobs, more sex, get rid of the orgasms and you'd be the perfect woman.

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