- That's Juicy! 12
- Remove It! 1
Clearly you classify sex as priority one in your life.
Same mistake most people make.
Did you ever think about looking a little deeper in to "girlfriends" existence? You think her priority is sex too?
In stead of judging her (another mistake) did it cross your mind you try to understand a little more about HER?
You talk about "fucking here and fucking there". Doesn't look too good on yourself either. Maybe this is the issue.
You see, before you go in to a relationship, you need to first understand what it is and what it means. And you don't.
Is that the only way you see her? As "hot"? Is that IT?
No, im not better than you or worse. I already lived what your living now a long time ago.
Im not judging you.
Advice? Learn about pure love and about HER. Her real existence. Her only object in life isn't to supply YOU with sex as YOU like it.
Understand what a relationship REALLY is.
She is probably one of the most wonderful people in the world, its just you can't see.
OMG! I'm not going to get too deep here with relationship advice, because I think your story is bullshit. Clearly, you should break up with her so that you can fuck all the other girls that you are fucking, without looking like a total dog, and without being so disrespectful to your gf. Her sister? Come on! Don't be an asshole.
This proves the problem with this site. Not once did the poster state his confession as something to be proud of. I could be wrong, but the whole vibe came off as him actually feeling remorse over it. He didn't talk about sex being a priority as #1 put it or even dismissed her as a person or existence. It was very clear that his confession was, to him, that she was awful in bed and as a result he's a whore. It doesn't make it right, and certainly fucking her sister and bestfriend is a douche move to the extreme, but immediately the response were you two jumping down his throat like he's some misogynist who disregards women as complete sex tools used for his pleasure. #1 you asked if he only sees his girlfriend as "hot" and it comes off like it's a bad thing he sees her as hot, regardless of if that is your intent. It is not, in any way, shape, or form to be physically attracted to your significant other. You make the assumption he doesn't love her or doesn't know what love is, but there is no ground for which to base this assumption on. You even mention that he's judging her yet not once did he do so. And #2, why did you even bother continuing past your first complete sentence? You believe it's bullshit, and it could be, but continued on berating. What was the point if you didn't believe it?
I'm not defending him or his actions. But there was a much better way to approach "advice". For starters, he's 33 and she's 19, according to the post. There's a good chance he's way more experienced and she isn't at all. She might not "know how" to do the things he wants. I know when I was 18 I was nervous as hell when it came to having boyfriends more experienced and I wasn't confident in my abilities in the bedroom. I didn't learn to properly give head until a guy took the time to show me how he liked it and that helped me get to be more comfortable with it and now I'm more comfortable with myself in such situations and am much better at it.
There's also the chance she isn't into him anymore or is cheating on him, too. I've had patients who love their spouses or significant others a great deal, love spending time with them, but habitually cheat because sexually there's no chemistry or it has faded and the excitement of having an affair reignites that spark, if even for a few hours. Yes, it's treating the symptoms and not the problem but it takes time to work out those problems, and that's after admitting there is one in the first place.
If you reread his entry you should notice that the first half is his confession that his girlfriend is horrible in bed. He compliments how she looks and that he finds her sexually appealing but that the act of sex with her does little to nothing for him. He even comments that physically she arouses him enough that he can masturbate to her to great effect, but the actual act of penetrations does nothing.
Again, I'm not condoning his actions. As #2 stated, it is disrespectful. However, there is a lot of info not given but #1 (and I apologize for seemingly picking on you here) you seem to have read a lot that isn't there. I've noticed on this site that if it was reversed, and it was a female posting there'd be a dozen comments of people telling her how hot she is and sending their emails and trying to hook up, from both men and women, but a male and assumptions are made and a lot of things are read into the character of the male with absolutely no possible way to have gleaned said knowledge.
all^ blah blah blah. Listen stud, like they say 'you gotta train em'. If she's so much of a pushover that you can fuck circles around her, she'll obviously take any instructions you have lying down, pardon the pun. MAKE her fuck you like a dirty little whore. And do it with prejudice.
I do not know what a 33 year old man is doing with a 19 year old girl. I personally would never be in that sittuation. I know young girls are hot and all their parts are still in top condition, but there is more to a relationship than that. I honestly do not find young girls to be all that attractive. You should probably find someone closer to your own age to play with.