I am Linda and i am 33 years old and have been married for 10 years now, me and my hubby have a healthy sex life and neither of us is prudish or anything like that. However a few nights ago my hubby asked me if i had anything against him inviting his buddies, i thought it was a weird question since why would something like that matter to me.
He explained that he wanted to see me give oral to his male friends, i thought he was joking since we often have dirty talk and talk about our fantasies and such. i thought I'd play along so I told him sure but if it was less than 5 the deal was off.

Anyway last night i came home from work and he and his friends were in the living room, i couldn't stay because i promised to help my sister with something. When i left he gave me a confused look which i thought was strange, when i finally returned home he told me he was mad at me for going back on my word.
Apparently he told his friends about it and said i would do it since i said i would and his friends got mad at him as well. He told them i had to something urgent and i would do it next time, to cover his ass.

Now i am left with a predicament, i don't want to give the guys wrong impression that i sleep around or do all kinds of nasty with everyone i meet. I don't want to give my hubby the impression either that i am willing to be a rent-a-slut for him. Oral is not a problem for me but I don't want anybody finding out or me ruining the relationship that me and my husband have. I'm really not sure what to do and if my hubby will make a habit out of it if I give in.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2013 at 7:38 PM

Well mabey you should but tell everyone the truth and your hubby as well and try not so many of his friends they will get that it was a misunderstanding and they won't be mad at your hubby.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2013 at 11:05 PM

Maybe your hubby should do his mates instead. I wouldn't put my wife in such a situation

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 3:56 PM

The thing is i did say i would do it though admittedly thinking he was joking, he asked for confirmation and i did give him one again unbeknownst to me that he was serious about it. I am still mad at him for doing something like that but i feel i should've asked if he was joking or not.
They are coming this sunday and i am not sure what to do, they are still upset with my hubby as they feel cheated.

Linda

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 6:11 PM

Have the all sit down on the couches and strip down. Tell them all to take out the cocks and tell them to stroke themselves hard. Start giving the first guy killer head. About a minute in, "accidentally" bite down hard on his cock. Apologize and tell him you're sorry but you're not used to sucking strange cock and tell him you want to try again. If the fool let's you "accidentally" bite him again until all the guys flee the house.

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 6:14 PM

If you don't want to do it, then don't. Simple as that. If your hubby can't handle it, then it's his problem not yours.

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 7:16 PM

Your husband and his friends are idiots....here is what you tell him, if they come over they better bring their wives so that you are not doing anything behind their back....trust me they will back down.

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 7:17 PM

It's not that i don't want to do it,i don't know what happens afterwards. Guys talk with other friends about it and usually like to brag so i am afraid if things will change for the worse if i do it. Like will others find out and is there a chance that they won't use that to get more out of me?

I really appreciate all and every answer.

Linda

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2013 at 11:55 PM

Don't trust people with a secret. If you're uncomfortable with the fact that it the secret could spread then don't do it and just explain to your husband that you thought it was just a joke.

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by Anonymous on Jun 12, 2013 at 2:02 AM

Linda, your husband is a dumbass, bringing in his friends like that. This is something that you may want to ease into instead of a group face fucking all in one setting.
I do have to admire the fact that you admit that it's not thAt you don't want to do it. There is the possibility that your hubs could become.....unhinged with his own jealousy. Might I suggest a friendly card game you be the server; a topless server, brush your tits on they boys arms accidentally of course, drag your tits across the back of the necks and keep serving them beer. Ring the opening of the beer bottles with you nipples for a special guy maybe your hubby, get some of the nectar dripping from your pussyfoot and smear it around the beer opening. The winner of the card game gets the blow job. By the time the game is over, everyone's a little buzzed and everyone will probably dump their cum in all your holes. Word may get out, but if hubs wants you to be a cum-slut then be the best at it. If he doesn't like it piss on him. If you are not into anal and someone wants to fuck you in the ass, tell him that he gets fucked you his ass first. Good luck Linda. Sorry you have bee put into this situation. Your husband is a jerk by the way. I'm just sayin'.

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by Anonymous on Jun 12, 2013 at 12:30 PM

If you do this you WILL destroy your relationship.
Maybe your hubby is missing fantasy or something close.
If he thinks you'd really do it, then he has NO respect for you and for SURE could not love you.

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by Anonymous on Jun 13, 2013 at 2:57 AM

A little update.

I never planned on having sex with them, that's where i draw the line. I don't hate the idea of giving head to them and find it somewhat exciting to an extent but it's not something i'd specially go looking for. It's as i said before the consequences it might bring with it that worry me.

I got the chance to talk to them yesterday and explain the whole situation and how it was all a huge misunderstanding but they took my hubby's side even though he himself pretty much admitted that i was right. Suddenly i had no spine and bit more than i can chew and how they were going to tell everyone about me if I don't do it sunday.
Now i have a feeling i'm damned if i do damned if i don't, if it was just two guys i wouldn't worry about them telling on me but it's a bit more than that.


Linda

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 13, 2013 at 6:41 PM

Don't feel pressured to do something sexual. That's messed up.

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by Anonymous on Jun 13, 2013 at 10:20 PM

If u do it they will expect it all the time and they will think less of you. But if u go ahead maybe your into it.... just sayin....

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by Anonymous on Jun 16, 2013 at 5:09 PM

Ok it's been a long day today, i overslept till noon since i ended up worrying almost the whole night about what would happen today. When i went to freshened up in the shower i heard the door open, i thought it was my hubby but instead I saw his friends naked and needles to say i was shocked.

To me personally this was a direct sign of disrespect towards me and my privacy, frankly didn't know who i was more mad at my hubby or them.Only thing they managed to get is a good look at me before i stormed out.
Haven't talked with hubby since they've left and I don't know what to say to him. He was never like this before but i felt he hurt my trust by not even having the common decency to talk to me first before sending them into the shower.I'm sorry if I seem like i'm nagging here but I really felt that was disrespectful.

Thank you everyone for your answers.
Linda

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2013 at 1:00 AM

Well...WTF happened??
Do tell.

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