I am 83 and have been a widower for over four years but I am still horny. My actual sex experiences have been straight vaginal intercourse and of course, masturbation which I am still active. And attractive women still excite me. I say straight with a little concern. Good looking (athletic) young men also give me a thrill and fantasy them doing anal to me. And I admit to once getting a dildo with abouat 5 inch girth and penetrating myself I found it enjoyable but still have great fantasizing the real thing bobbing up there and bringing pleasure to the young adult male. In fact, it may even be a stronger fantasy now since when masturbating I really wonder if it is hard enough to penetrate a woman's pussy. In short, I love sex and I think that includes being penetrated as well as penetrating. I would be willing to perform oral with a woman lover but have no desire to give a man a blow job, thought I would be willing to have a blow job though I never have. But while I would like to continue to be sexually (including being fucked) active beyond masturbating I am on the shy side and don't know how to make any connections.