well I have been doing a study so this is not really a confession but might help a few men out.guys do not join any i mean any sex/dating /meet sites they are meant to suck you in once you give them the money on your card you will never get a reply and some sites keep charging you and make it very hard for you to get off they will just keep taking your money every month.think about it guy's ??Do women need a site to find a date?? no not even ugly or over weight women so take heed men do not fall for it all those models are out for one thing your money. well they might not even know there pic is being used to get your money guys your just going to have to do it the old way find a girl on your own or buy one