I'm looking for some advice. Advice you just don't get from family or friends.
My husband recently asked me if I'd consider a threesome with another man. He already knows the guy he'd like me and him to have sex with. It's my ex. He's got a much lager penis than my husband, but I know he likes to fuck men as well as women, hence our break up.
My questions are: Do I go along with my husbands increasingly frequent requests to have sex with him??. Also could my husband want the sex to experience gay sex, as he's said he'd consider sucking my ex's cock if "I" wanted him to do it??..

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 30, 2013 at 1:24 PM

lets work out the possible scenarios that could happen and you can then decide what to do

1. you have sex with both men and it works great, both husband and your ex are cool about it and neither men have sex with each other.
2. you have sex with your ex in front of hubby, you enjoy it too much and hubby get jealous and then there is a break down in your communication with hubby...both lose
3. your husband may know about your ex being bi (you didn't mention it) and he decided that if it happens it happens, during the course of sexual escapades, without telling him he sucks your ex and he discovers he likes it and wants to do this more often by using you as a tool for his hidden bi...in the end would you feel used and hurt? could you live with that ?
4. using the same scenario as above let's say he tried and hated it, and the experience turns him off and to the whole 3-some experience at least with a man, he questions himself and his role in the whole things...he could project anger towards you even though he pushed you into this...

those are the most likely ones, sure there are others, but i have to say that inculcating this situation these would be the mostly outcomes....still it's up to you but i have a feeling he already talked to your ex.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 30, 2013 at 5:30 PM

I have to agree with #1. The biggest problem you face, even if you talk to your husband extensively and are sure he really wants this, is that the psychological impact on your husband when it is done. Right now he thinks he want to see you getting fucked or would like to share you as a front to try being bi, but neither he nor yourself can predict how that will affect him psychologically once it has been done. Many find wanting and doing are very different. Even though someone this about a 3-some all of their life, once they achieve the experience, they resent either their partner or themselves for doing it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 31, 2013 at 3:09 AM

I say go for it but not with a x

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 31, 2013 at 8:05 AM

Thank you for the replies. I've shown my husband my confession and the replies. He's now admitted he's wanted to experience some type of male sex, but didn't want it to be out of the sphere of our marriage. He has spoken to my ex on numerous occassions and I'm not really sure where the conversations went. What I do know is my ex has consented to joining us and also having my husband pleasure him (maybe more?). I'm still confused by his need to seek sex from a man, as I would gladly use toys with, for and in him, if that's what he wanted. I think I'm going to have to make my mind up from your answers and my husbands next statement. I will make it perfectly clear, it was his idea if I start to enjoy my ex's cock too much. If my husband does, then I'll face it when I watch them have sex, I suppose.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 31, 2013 at 5:17 PM

NO LONG WINDED ANSWER. STRAIGHT TO THE POINT. DON'T DO IT.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 3, 2013 at 3:54 PM

you have no gaydar, get away from the homosexuals and find a real man. You left one gay man and have another one now. In time he will leave you for some guy; or bring you a disease you can not recover from.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 3, 2013 at 3:55 PM

you have no gaydar, get away from the homosexuals and find a real man. You left one gay man and have another one now. In time he will leave you for some guy; or bring you a disease you can not recover from.

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