I have an problem I have three fetishes that contradict with my view of sex. I view sex as an expression of love. No I'm not religious or hold anyone to my view I just won't do it without having an emotional connection with the other person. However the things I want out of sex are um " kinky " nothing illegal. To explain I better say what my fetishes are. I want a submissive women ( bondage ) , bald ( meaning no hair on her head ) , and wearing glasses ( cheap knock off glasses are fine too ). Yet having someone be in a monogamist and matching my " kink " is one of many thing I believe is keeping me single. Am I doomed to stay single or will I find someone that does these things while being faithful ( as in not cheating ). I need advice and just can't tell people I know because it's kind of embarrassing.