Sex with the wife was always good but the last couple of years because of the meds I must take I cant get a erection. Only way I could cum was to watch porn and masturbate. Then orgasm was weak and unsatifing. The wife started complaining that she was a woman and had needs. So I bought her sex toys but she says it is no fun unless I use them on her. She claims it is the best ever now but after I work her over she says that sucking my dick is usless because it will not get hard. I tell her it still feel good and it would make me cum but it would take alot longer than before. Now she says shit like it is hurting her jaw and it is not working so why bother. So just recently I go to the adult video arcade to masturbate. I was watching a movie and did not even have my pants open when the door opened and a older man came in and locked the door. At first I was like what the hell but then he pulled his dick out and it was hard and it looked good. He put his hands on my head and pushed the dick towards me. Before I could react it was pushing against my lips and them into my mouth. New for me but so sex deprived I let it happen. I started sucking on it and he was pushing in and out. I thought wow this is not so bad, then he put both hands on the back of my head and pushed it in as far as he could and started cumming. I thought I should spit but he leaned over and started kissing me to share the cum with me. He also started rubbing my dick and it came in just a few moments. Wish thing s would not have come to that but I need to orgasm also. Wife know nothing of this and would freak if she did. To me the place is all about lust and no love. Any advice would be very helpful.