Don't you have any money? Shit man, how have you gone this long without sex? Or is this just about never having fucked a pussy? You had to have had some head right? If you have zero experience at 39, you really should go and spend a little money on yourself bro. Find a a little pay-for-play chick to show you the ropes. Craigslist for one, might be a place to start. you gotta get some experience my friend. At your age, if you meet a woman to date, she will likely have some experience herself, and some middle-aged virgin ain't gonna cut it for her. You don't have to go nuts, just 5 or 6 sessions could be enough. We're talking about a grand, give or take a few bucks. It's a no-brainer if you ask me. These sexual service-providers are available for a reason, and for any guy in a dry-spell, they are convenient and cost-effective when you consider what a night out with dinner and drinks is worth. And often, that would be all you get out of it too. I mean, good company is nice, but if your endgame is sex, then your money is better spent on P4P.
Good advice in comment one. But if you want the real thing minus the tawdriness of paying for it, you could come to me. I've helped a lot of my friends with this. I get off on the excitement and inexperience of a guy who hasn't had too much time with a woman. I would be happy to have you use me as a trainer pussy :) Mine is already wet at the mere thought.