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Revenge
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Straight Female / 22
I hate my child's biological father. He lied, cheated, raped, stole and plenty more while we were together, unfortunately I was too blinded by love to let him go. After we had a child together he started stealing her birth money. I kicked him out and it has been a year since I last heard from him. My child's birthday, father's day and Christmas all passed and he made no contact and sent nothing, selfishly this made me very happy.
I say the child is mine, because he has nothing to do with anything, apart from being the equivalent of a sperm donor.
It had been a year since he last saw my child and 6 months since he last phoned, until today. Today was the day he rang for the first time and I was so angry. He told me about his stupid bills he had to pay, how he had got himself into even more debt, the tax man is after him, the CSA won't get off his case, he could only save £4 in the last month and wanted to see my child to give her a present. I don't know why. He has nothing to do with anything. I'm hoping he will just fuck off again. There are 3 father figures in my child's life; my father, best friend and brother in law. Why does my child need a let down of a father figure????
I'm not a bad person. I'm at college studying hard and have just applied to University. My college work is going very well even though I joint the course late. I intend on finding the love of my life when the time is right to help me raise my daughter, buy a house, drive, get a decent job and continue to raise my child in the best way possible.
I know he will only drag the two of us down. My child cannot even recognise him when shown a photo. That is his fault, not mine. Please, someone tell me I'm doing the right thing by thinking he is not worthy of being in her life. My friends all say I'm a great mom and he is a let down. If I let him into my child's life again he will only let her down again. Which in turn will mess up her head, I only believe that because it happened to some of my friends.
He knows nothing about my child's nursery, favourite colour, pet, height, hair etc.
I feel like crying. I had convinced myself he would not hassle us again, clearly I was wrong. One of my friends suggested calling the police and calling it harassment. Would the police really see it that way???? Don't feel sorry for this pathetic excuse for a man, he left his child and he is number one is his world. Nothing is ever his fault. For example, he tried blaming he for the debt he got into when he was 18, I had never met him at this point or knew he exists therefore making this impossible. He puts the blame entirely on everyone else.
Help.
I say the child is mine, because he has nothing to do with anything, apart from being the equivalent of a sperm donor.
It had been a year since he last saw my child and 6 months since he last phoned, until today. Today was the day he rang for the first time and I was so angry. He told me about his stupid bills he had to pay, how he had got himself into even more debt, the tax man is after him, the CSA won't get off his case, he could only save £4 in the last month and wanted to see my child to give her a present. I don't know why. He has nothing to do with anything. I'm hoping he will just fuck off again. There are 3 father figures in my child's life; my father, best friend and brother in law. Why does my child need a let down of a father figure????
I'm not a bad person. I'm at college studying hard and have just applied to University. My college work is going very well even though I joint the course late. I intend on finding the love of my life when the time is right to help me raise my daughter, buy a house, drive, get a decent job and continue to raise my child in the best way possible.
I know he will only drag the two of us down. My child cannot even recognise him when shown a photo. That is his fault, not mine. Please, someone tell me I'm doing the right thing by thinking he is not worthy of being in her life. My friends all say I'm a great mom and he is a let down. If I let him into my child's life again he will only let her down again. Which in turn will mess up her head, I only believe that because it happened to some of my friends.
He knows nothing about my child's nursery, favourite colour, pet, height, hair etc.
I feel like crying. I had convinced myself he would not hassle us again, clearly I was wrong. One of my friends suggested calling the police and calling it harassment. Would the police really see it that way???? Don't feel sorry for this pathetic excuse for a man, he left his child and he is number one is his world. Nothing is ever his fault. For example, he tried blaming he for the debt he got into when he was 18, I had never met him at this point or knew he exists therefore making this impossible. He puts the blame entirely on everyone else.
Help.
