This started a little over a year ago for myself and a friend. The two of us were just your average friends, neither of us gay. I would not even describe us as being all that close as such. Yet, we were quite comfortable with each other, and because of this we found ourselves drawn to what was basically the intrigue and allure of male-intimacy. We both found that there was something which was quite appealing in experiencing masculine closeness. Whenever we were out, we were just two ordinary friends. But when we were alone at his place or mine, we found ourselves increasingly attracted to the idea of our exploring what it would be like to be amorously friendly. We sort of casually talked and joked about it a little bit. And one afternoon, just to see what it would be like, we ended up naked in bed together. It was such a romantic experience which surprised us both. After that, we began to enjoy having a secret male love affair.
We both have wondered if we are gay, but neither of us feel that way. We have also wondered, is it possible for two friends to be gay, but only with one another?? This seems like it could be true in our case. Regardless of trying to label it, we have continued to enjoy and delight in each other's romantic companionship, and would like to hear some thoughts from others on this.


