You stay in your marriage due to money--IMO that just makes you a whore. You're fucking around so that kind of reaffirms my initial impression.
You don't have the courage to talk to this guy and level with him. Maybe he's looking to move on, maybe not, but then again, you're whoring yourself in your current marriage so maybe you don't think he's good enough (makes enough money) for you.
He's in a real situation where he's not getting any at home, and he's cheating on her, but you're just damaged good as far as what you've posted. He'd be better off just paying a street whore to get his rocks off.
have been the officer with non put out wife. I finally gave up on her and moved on. I had offers and passed on them, wanted to be honest.
I also know a bunch of officers tell you that. just to get some side pussy. One would suggest sex, finger and kiss, just to get a blow job. Did not want to be caught with his pants down. Would meet up and screw from time to time off duty. keep the blow jobs coming later.
Some of these same officers getting blow jobs from crack whores. No protection for each. Few turned up with some major STDs. One had full blown aids before he know it.
keep sucking his cock his cum and you kissed everyone else.
When I worked I turned down several offers per week. If he wants sex its there, trust me its there.