I'm dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and I cheated on him with our best friend a month ago. I told him about it because I just couldn't keep it in anymore, and he forgave me, but now he's cutting everything between us and our friends.
And I feel really ashamed, but I feel bad not for cheating on him, and not for making him feel bad, but for our friends that now have to stop talking to us. I really miss the old times, when my boyfriend and I just started dating, when he wasn't so deeply in love, when we could hang around his friends without him getting so jealous or so serious about our relationship... I also felt more loved then than now.
I want to break up with him but I can't because I'm afraid he'll harm himself, so I'm just stuck here, forever, I guess. I want to be free.

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by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2014 at 10:38 AM

So you started dating this guy when you were 16 and he was around that age too. You are both fucktards. Where do you see this going--say in 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, etc? Face it, the only reason you are with him is that you have sex with him and feel emotionally invested--remove the sex and what do you have?

Children, and that is what you are, have sex in their adolescence, and pre-adolescence, and think it will be no big deal. Then they get down the road a bit and find--hey, I don't really want to be with this person, or I'd really like to be with that person; but they are emotionally invested because of the sex.

Guess what? This is why your parents and grandparents told you not the go fucking around. You get emotionally invested too early and cannot handle it.

At 18 your bf is not ready for the commitment and neither are you. Tell him and break it off. Then remember your situation you are in now--frequent sex and exclusive dating makes an emotion investment that neither of you are ready for and when you need to break it, then it's going to bring tragedy and a lot of drama to your lives.

Break it off. Do it clean. Do it now. And don't go back.

It'll not be long before your ex will be using another girl for a cock dock, and basically that is what he's looking for right now. The isolation is just staking his claim on you--you are his piece of ass and he doesn't want to share.

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