I was dating a guy for a long time, and he was pretty great in bed. We took some naughty pictures and video of ourselves for fun and watched them often. I kept them on my computer, and when we broke up, it was because we grew apart. Neither of us were angry, and we went our separate ways.

Unbeknownst to me, he had shown his best friends the photos of me. His best friend and I ran across each other at a bar and after a few drinks and some catching up, he confessed to seeing them and developing a huge crush on me because of it. I'm not an idiot, I know it's lust and not a crush at all.

I was so embarrassed, but now I feel totally turned on from the embarrassment. Since then I've submitted a few of my photos to "revenge" websites and totally got off from the dirty comments. I feel like a weirdo, but the embarrassment gets me off.