Kids are taught to tell someone when they have been sexually hurt. I was molested, it didn't hurt being he was gentle, so he had me promise to keep it "our secret". Parents of young ones, you might want to consider teaching your young children to speak up if anyone tries to touch them at all instead of teaching them to speak up only if they were hurt. I clearly remember not telling anyone because my experience actually felt good, thought i would get into trouble if i told anyone.