I've had the same babysitter watching my daughter Gail from the time she was three. My babysitter was 16 when she started watching my daughter and now she is 19.

She usually drives over to watch my daughter but one weekend she called and said she was having car trouble and needed a ride over. When I left for the evening my babysitter gave me a big hug and a kiss. Nothing unusual for her, she has always been affectionate towards me. I kissed her back and took off.

When I got back home I didn't see the babysitter in the living room where she usually is. I called out her name and she answered, I could tell she was in my bedroom. I went in and she was in my bed. She got out of bed and was just wearing a pair of panties. She gave me a hug and a kiss and said she hoped that she didn't mind, but she got really tired and lay down for a nap.

I told her to get ready and I'd give her a ride home. She said it was okay and she could stay the night if it was okay with me. I asked if she knew what she was saying and she said we've been flirting enough and she wanted to spend the night with me.

She moved in with me two weeks later. Gail calls her Mommy and I haven't dated another woman since my babysitter and I slept together. If it wasn't for our 12 year age difference I'd be tempted to marry her. I've talked to her about it and she says that age doesn't matter. I feel that at her age it should.