Hi iam a 21 year old from chennai pursuing with my engineering .I had a friend in my college whom i thought as the sweetest person on Earth he is still sweet its just that he had a break up and i kinda liked another guy who dint like me so my friend helped me to come out of it.We gradually started getting closer when we decided to move on physically with no relationship.I was fine by it because i already developed a feeling towards him.When i tried telling him he started hating me he said im poseessive on him.He does nt talk to me and he asked me to get out of his life.But what did i do i just him that it would nice if i be his better half i felt it.I love him we dint have sex either.i tried all ways to tell him how much i love but he has nt come out his past relationship where that girl is married and has a kid.moreover our cast differs his mom is strict i could nt read his mind i donno how to convince me but i want to marry him.i want him as my husband what should i do im not able to study,eat sleep all girls problem at this age i dont want to come out of it instead make him realize that he loves me or miss me ,make him love me and regret for having hurt me.wat should i do im so confused and hurt help me please...

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by Anonymous on May 19, 2014 at 6:50 AM

Honey, you can't make a trout out of a gold fish. He has mixed emotions regarding you and your way, the best thing you can do dear, is leave him alone, and avoid him as much as humanly possible. You will find someone that will appreciate you for being yourself.
I would suggest that you with-hold your expressions of "love" for a person until such time as that person just out-right says that they love you. Be your kind and caring self and just let it happen.
Also, you are not required to have sex at the drop of a hat.
There is a culture clash and some people are just not in tune with it.
So, leave the guy alone, do your own thing and the right guy will approach you and you can educate them about your Indian culture, customs, and traditions. If he is interested and finds it all fascinating then ease into the relationship and try not to express your possessiveness.
Good luck.

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by Anonymous on May 19, 2014 at 6:51 AM

You cannot "make" someone love you

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by Anonymous on Aug 14, 2014 at 4:36 PM

Engineering students usually know how to spell correctly.

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by Anonymous on Oct 24, 2014 at 5:32 PM

Let me volunteer #3. I am an engineering student and I can spell correctly correct. But first, let me give you a simple project, it is based on correct spelling, no abbreviations. "Railroad Crossing, Forty Four Cars". Now, let me hear you spell that without any R's.

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by Anonymous on Oct 26, 2014 at 8:14 AM

Dump his ass and find someone else. He is a world of pain waiting to happen.

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