I live in a very religious town , where staying a virgin before marriage is a must ,and along with being religious their super judgement which has lead me in this situation . I meant my boyfriend and his family at church . We dated for a month before we started getting sexual . One day after church I went to my boyfriend's house .. We were hanging out down in the basement and I was giving him a blowjob when his father walked in and caught us .being what I thought was a religious man he was upset . Yelling at both of us and punished my boyfriend .He said I wasn't allowed to come over anymore , then told me to get in the truck and he took me home .. He was super mean and seemed disgusted with me .The whole ride there he made me believe he was going to tell my parents but when we got to the corner of my street he stopped the truck .he then told me he would make a deal with me . He said If I "suck he's dick" he would forget what happened , wouldn't tell my parnets and would allow me to see my boyfriend again . Out the fear of my father finding out I did it ... But it didn't just stop there ... He won't allow my boyfriend and me to hang out without supervision . He also won't let my boyfriend drive me home .he does .. And everytime he almost demands I give him a blowjob .. But something happened 2 weeks .. instead of taking me home, he took me to he's friends barn . He told me he wanted to see me give blowjobs to 3 guys and when I told him I wasn't comfortable with it , he said he would tell my parents what my boyfriend and I did again ... So I agreed ...they were super mean and almost violent .Since then he's had me do that 2 more times . I don't know how to tell him no .... I mean sometimes I feel like if I said no he wouldn't tell but Still , I can't take a chance of my father finding out I'm not a virgin!