This past July I was in a serious car accident, my siater, and I were seriously injured and my brother who was driving sustained a skull fracture. Thanfully he is doing well as is my sister and I. I was in the back seat and thats were my brother's car was hit. My right leg and arm were fractured and my body hurt everywhere. I woke up already in the hospital and for the next three weeks was prodded and probed by numerous doctors and nurses. I was subjected to some of the most humiliating exams I have ever experienced by doctors and guys who were only doctors assistants. Aside from having my breasts exposed many times because of brusing on my chest I also was subjected to four gyno exams and two rectal exams. I had some blood in my urine for only a few days but they insisted to keep giving me the gyno exams once using a speculum while the doctor and his assitant were both there along with a nurse. I am sure there were at least eight doctors who examined me and I think three others who examined me were assistants. Another thing is that when I was in the hospital there was no such thing as privacy when it came to tests and exams. The way I was carted around in those awful gowns was embarrassing to say the least. As I was waiting to have a cat scan or xray done there were numerous people both male and female in the same room. One day waiting for an xray I was laying on a gurney and didn't realize that the cover wasn't fully over me. I had my knees up slightly and there were four men and two ladies across from me. The one lady whispered to the nurse and the next thing I knew she came over and adjusted the sheet telling me I was exposed. I had been laying there almost fifteen minutes by that time and evidently all four of those men and the two women could see my vagina and most of my ass. I was totally mortified and just closed my eyes almost in tears. I wondered since then how many guys did see me and think there were also male nurses who I was exsposed to. There were so many people in and out of my room I don't know who most of them are or what they were assistants, nurses or doctors. They all had stethiscopes and the first week or so I was hurting so much I didn't care. Once I felt better is when the embarrassment took over and I couldn't wait to get out of there as soon as possible.

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by Anonymous on Sep 21, 2014 at 2:26 PM

I can understand your feelings and how your dignity was not respected, I sincerly hope you can come to terms with what happened.

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by Anonymous on Oct 2, 2014 at 5:52 PM

Author,
1. Be not ashamed.
2. Be not embarrassed.
3. Be not humiliated.
You are not the first and will not be the last. These Doctors, Assistant Doctors, RN, etc; have seen so many that they probably are looking but not seeing. I know, I am a Corp-Man in the Army and knowing these patients are ill, weak and distressed, although beautiful, I cannot imaging getting excited looking at then nude.

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by Anonymous on Oct 2, 2014 at 11:15 PM

Be thankful they helped you to recover

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by Anonymous on Oct 8, 2014 at 9:47 PM

I know it's easy for me to say, but I wouldn't worry too much. The doctors and nurses are there to take care of you. The gowns are designed for easy access, not modesty. I spent a couple of weeks in the hospital on two different occasions, and I remember feeling terrible and struggling to keep the damned gown closed and I limped to the washroom, hanging on the pole carrying the IV bag. More than once a passing nurse told me that I was exposed, but I was struggling too much to care as much as I usually would. The sponge baths were not very dignified either.

I didn't see much of the doctors, but the nurses were excellent. The impression that I got was that they really did care, and that really helped.

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