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I need some help here.
Last night my wife and some of here friends went on a "Hen night", I knew they where going to watch some male strippers at a club.
I was asleep when my wife returned home, but when I woke up this morning I noticed she had some dry cum in her hair, and on her dress. I questioned her about it and she admitted to giving a Dancer/Stripper a blow job. She was so open about it even own to describing what happened. I'm shocked to say the least and not just by her actions but by her attitude to what she got up to. When I asked about the dry cum, she told me not to worry about it because she was going to have a shower to wash it out off her hair and off her breast. Just like nothing had happened last night.

In so many ways I wish she had not done what she did, but at the same time I want to know more, perhaps to help me understand what went on.

Any feedback from men and women would be welcomed. Have you been in the same situation?

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# 22095 - by Anonymous / December 13, 2014

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by Anonymous on Dec 13, 2014 at 9:40 AM

A few hours on and we have had a long chat and now I feel totally devastated, she confessed not only to giving a BJ but to having full penetration sex with this guy. We agreed that our daughter should spend tonight at my parents. Why in her mind is it perfectly OK to have Sex with some stranger, just because it was a fun night out. She say's that she was curious to experience sex with a black guy, and it was nothing more than that.
I don't know what to do, Walk away from our marriage, Talk it through, or like she told me, accept it for what it was, just some fun.

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by Anonymous on Dec 13, 2014 at 1:39 PM

Would not want to be in your situation fella at all. Good Luck and I hope you get things sorted.

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 1:59 AM

I'm a 42yo good looking, hung, bi, div bull who loves sex - PERIOD. I enjoy one-on-one's with women and men; three ways and orgies of any combination imaginable. So, I am extremely open minded and very understanding when it comes to sex. However, the few times I've encountered a sex partner who manifest a cavalier attitude I learned the hard way to drop 'em fast and forever! The attitude your wife is showing is the problem: it indicates her wants, needs and desires are paramount and her husbands needs, wants and desire have no value. When your in a non-consensual, adulterous situation someone's Genie is out of the bottle. Even if you accept it, her attitude is what will cause you grieve, anguish and hurt for the rest of the time your together. If you like the idea of your woman being with another man, find you a woman who doesn't have a sadistic, cavalier attitude...so your feeling, desires, needs and wants have value and positive consequences.

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 5:39 AM

^ +1

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 6:11 AM

Clearly, you have to assess the value of your marriage. Are you good partners? If you feel that your marriage is a good partnership, then suck it up and let this go. You have a "get out of jail free" card in your pocket. Go out and have some of your own fun.

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 12:45 PM

Well she did what she did...you probably would have done the same given the opportunity.
She needs and likes a little extra..I'm sure you could use the same. In braces her,,if she ever had that need again..she Has to run it by you first.
Maybe you guys move up and on, have a threesome with another guy and another woman too..have fun...sex should not cause a brake
up.
If my woman did that yes it would hurt but if you love her..you should be happy she had a good time,, go and fuck her and enjoy your nice piece of ass. And use her sexual misdeeds to your advantages to have more sex.
If your around my neck of the woods ..you can come fuck my hot wife...but I would love to watch.
This has never happened in my life yet but I'm game.

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 2:04 PM

Thanks for the feedback. I'm really struggling with this at the moment, I can't turn to my family or my friends. We are talking and not shouting, so I guess that's a good start.
She keeps telling me it was just some fun with her friends on a night out and nothing more than a "Quick Fuck with a guy with a hot body " (her words).

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 4:37 PM

Ya don't tell your friends or family..that just makes problem bigger.

by Anonymous on Dec 14, 2014 at 5:48 PM

I can tell you, u need to divorce her nasty ass!! This wasn't her first time I can guarantee that.
Sounds like she has no respect for you or your marriage!! I would tell your kids and family everything! Sorry dude, but you are married to a nasty n****r loving whore!!

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 1:59 AM

The above poster is correct, try to realize that unlike men, women have sex with whoever they want to have sex with. They do all the picking. She brazenly had her fun because whether this was the first time or not, she finally weighed your family(not just you, but the family as a whole) as having less value then satisfying her curiosity/lust. Someone that loves you would never do such a thing.
You can work through a problem---you can't work through it when someone doesn't even think that there's a problem. I'd suggest marriage counseling if she's willing and divorce if she's not.

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 3:28 AM

It's going to hurt for ages, she was honest when most wouldn't had been, and didn't let your suspicions build until you would be more crushed than now.... best thing you can do? Go work the fuck out... keep at it, til she knows that you are the only sexy mother fucker she wants.

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 4:27 AM

To reply 11

She is the only one I want and despite what happened I still love her.
I took today off work to try and get my head straight, but sitting here alone thinking about what she did is driving me crazy. Would you believe at one point I started to watch videos on the internet of women at parties doing the same thing and I can't believe how these women have no problem behaving like that. My mood is up and down, if she was to walk through the door right now I think I would take her straight upstairs f**k her using all the built up tension in my body, but now I've said that, in all honesty I would probably just keep imagining her with him.

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 6:21 AM

ur wife is a slut theres ur answer

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 5:32 PM

This story made me very sad, as it's obvious that the husband has been loyal to his wife and never expected such a horrific betrayal. What's even worse is that he seems to lack the clarity of thought necessary to do what's right for himself in this situation. His wife has shown how contemptuous she is of him and her marriage. She doesn't regard him as a real man, otherwise not only would she not have cheated, she wouldn't have acted so relaxed about the whole thing afterwards. It's evident that she's behaved this way because she views her husband as weak. A fool who will meekly accept his new status as a cuckold. If he does, there's only one way that this is going to play out - she'll keep taking new lovers and he'll keep accepting it. In the end, he'll be so submissive that she'll make him sleep on the couch downstairs while she has sex with her lovers in the marital bed. She might even have sex with them in front of him, and make him perform sex acts on her lovers while they laugh at him. Cuckolding is real and it can destroy a man. I worry that this guy is already walking down that path - a path that normally ends up in the cuckolded husband becoming a sexless servant for the wife and her lovers. Tragic.

by Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014 at 11:04 PM

Lol..14. Very nice story well written. If he is a man..he will do what's best for his family( kids) she told him more than most woman would, I give her credit...

Yes dude go fuck her..,,, just because you fuck her does not mean you have to love her or what she did..and she never made love to this other man.

He fucked your hot wife, your lover. It's not great get over it, it will take time, but don't throw away love because some cock..that's crazy..next she must ask...but you should demand she set up a sex night or two for you. one of her friends or some else
outside the circle. And your option if she is there or not.
90 percent of woman would do this any how at some point in there life's.

by Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014 at 6:28 AM

15 is clearly 1) a pervert, 2) a woman, or 3) just a dumb fuck.

To the original poster, your wife cheated on you at the drop of a hat. She'll definitely do it again. You'd be crazy to stay with her.

by Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014 at 11:17 AM

Thanks for your input.

I'm totally devastated by what's happened I still love my wife but today I went to see my lawyer. My main concern is my daughter she is my world and I wont have her getting hurt, so I'm putting my house in my daughters name (the house was left to me by my Grandmother) and I will be moving out very soon. In all the time I've known my wife we have never had an argument or a fight and I don't plan on starting now. Christmas is going to be heart breaking, how do you explain this to a child.

Thank you.

by Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014 at 11:57 AM

Dude, do NOT move out of the house. DO NOT!!! That is a massive mistake from a legal point of view. Under no circumstances should you move out of the house. And if the lawyer that you met with recommended this, fire him and get a lawyer who isn't a moron. If you move out of the house, you are, in the eyes of the court, effectively ceding the house to your wife, regardless of whose name it is in. Putting the house in the name of the child will NOT remove the wife's residency rights in it, nor your financial obligations to maintain it. You will find yourself living in rented accommodation while working to pay the mortgage/tax/utilities bills for the house where your wife entertains her lovers in what was your bedroom. Do NOT do it.

You have done NOTHING wrong. She is the guilty party. Don't throw away your house for a cheating piece of shit. Man, you definitely need to get better legal advice.

by Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014 at 8:38 PM

You said you loved her,,,just because she fucked someone else that changes everything...and your breaking your family up because of
Some sex...that is crazy...learn to forgive and forget, fuck people, grow up...
Read more confessions people are doing al kinds of crazy stuff, married, open marriages. She told you the truth....90 percent of woman would not do that, to a man they deeply love. It's sex...big deal. Trust comes before sex. She made a mistake, you love her..forgive her, if you can get over it. Just keep saying to your self it's ok, it's not that big of a deal.

by Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014 at 8:45 PM

This happens every day...everyday for thousands of years. Bottom line there is not enough sex in our societies. If people could truly love each other, she could have asked for another cock and her loving husband would have been there to hold her hand. It's sex, pleasure. Love making is different. Love your neighbour.

by Anonymous on Dec 18, 2014 at 6:28 AM

Situations are similar but none are the same. My wife went to a bachelorette party and came home with cum on her skirt and in her hair. They had male strippers and all the girls were pretty drunk before they started their stripping. At first she said she gave him a handjob, then admitted the girls kept egging her on until she gave him a blowjob she got the cum on her because she thought he was through cumin and shot a stream or two when she slipped it out of her mouth. I was so angry and fought hard not to go off on her. She had to same cavalier attitude you wife had. The girls just having fun and got a little too drunk. I was rock hard, not from being turned on but from anger. I took her upstairs and fucked her hard. She told me she told him if he wanted more to take her home as she was too drunk to drive. She sucked him in his car and he fucked once in the car on the side of the road. He fucked two more times at his apt. And, she blew him again in our driveway before getting home at around 4:30 a.m. She didn't cry, ask forgiveness or seem too upset that I didn't understand. She said I haven't had black cock for almost 6 years (sorry she actually said black meat: and just went for it. I reminded her we had been married almost ten years at that time. My point is that my wife and I tried to work it out but since I forgave her to her that was permission. We did the threesome both other guys and other girls. Which we both enjoyed but she just couldn't be faithful even then. I would find out that she had guys that we did threeway come over and fuck her while I was at work. One day I came and was in a very horny mood. I took her to bed but when I went to eat her pussy the guy had just left and she was still leaking cum. She left that day. Don't give up your house, fight for you child, get a good lawyer, and because my wife turned out to be a total slut doesn't mean yours will. But forgive but don't completely forget until you are sure it's a one time thing. Truthfully I would almost bet a months pay that you only found out because of the cum on her. If she had cleaned up better she would still be doing it. Especially if she was on a "Girls not out". That means her friends probably watched her give him a blowjob. And it was normal behavior for one or more of them to get fucked on their outtings. Good luck guy.

by Anonymous on Dec 18, 2014 at 6:37 AM

Run a mile from the cheating monster. Or more accurately, make her run a mile. Throw her out on her ass. Keep the house. Keep your daughter. Just lose the cheater.

Don't listen to the idiots telling you that it's no big deal. Her attitude is sick. She thinks she did something minor that isn't even worth getting upset over. There's no doubt that she's cheated before this stripper. And there's no doubt that she'll cheat again. Keep what's important - your child, your house, you pride - just dumb the cheater. For good!

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