Born and raised in a Christan background, I stayed chased through out my childhood and teen life - and in fact much of my youth except with a girl who I just could not help. Twas a short stint but the sex was really good.

Now married, to this beautiful woman - and yet over and over again, I decline her sexual advances. Perhaps I was scared how much she used to enjoy sex at first when we got married.

You see, I fear addiction of anything - and to me, sex is the most potent addiction. So I do whatever I can to ensure that I can still control myself.

What's the catch? What's the point of all this - you ask! Well, here goes my theory...

I think sex was engineered to weaken the will of human beings. Well, was it 'God' who was behind it - I dunno. But if i was to turn to the religious background, the woman was 'removed' from man - and that i believe was the beginning of all troubles for humans. All of a sudden, there is the urge to merge - aka - sex. A divided person / people can be easily ruled. DIVIDE AND CONQUER

Sex weakens the soul and the will of man - but it also makes the person easy to manipulate, to control, to rule and conquer.

Think about it. we are filled in a world full of sex, sexual innuendos, porn in movies (even clean movies),cartoons, advertisements - it's all designed to keep humans under check and in control. To waste and give up all that built in universe energy within. I think that's the foundation of Celibacy. It's storing all that energy within.

Just like 'God' decided to confuse the tongues of men when building 'tower of babel', humans were given sex to keep them enslaved. Same as is the case where we cannot do without sleep. It's a limitation of humans from transcending to think or become like 'god'. The moment one is weakened, they will / can do anything to get what they want.

Those who are married may not want to admit this, but Sex makes men stupid! Yes- literally stupid. They say silly things they don't mean, flirt like dogs just to stick their p inside the v. When you think about it, it's not only gross and degrading, but demeaning and weakening. It destroys the very will of a man. Hence after /or just before sex, a man will say yes to anything.

And women know this - that's why they always want to give us some - so that they can control us. These animalistic behavior if not checked can bring down kingdoms. It brought down the human race.

My conclusion - I endeavor to totally avoid sex. Yes I am married, but well too bad for now. We shall redefine the relationship but I cannot stand to be emasculated psychologically by a thing like sex. The best analogy I can think of (again back to the bible) is just as Esau sold his birthright for a bowl of vegetable soup - so is having sex giving up all the universe energy within you and wasting it in a puff - for mere few seconds of pleasure. It's just not worth it.

Finally, no one has ever died ( or will ever die ) just because they never had sex. LOL