I work at a 911 center and its dead most of the night. I work with a younger guy who is single, I am married. I told him last year that my sex life was gone many years back. My husband has problems rising to the occasion and that includes me giving him oral sex. He just ignores me and it hurts. I have a son and a daughter and have not been with my husband three times since the birth of our daughter.

While I do not want to end our marriage, I have needs that my hands and toys will not touch. I have been a sexual woman and love the feeling of a man in and on me. I like the tight feeling of him holing me almost motionless as he takes me. Sorry I got carried away some.

My Coworker is single now a divorced man who loves sex as much as I do. So I offered him all the sex he wants with not one bit of emotional attachment. He can take me and do as he wants with out question. We have single beds to allow for emergencies. That is where he and I had sex many times. I have preformed a lot of duties for him that few woman would.
Now he tells me he is worried I might try to charge him with sexual harassment in the future. So he will not have sex with me at work or outside work.

What do I do now? I do not want to loose this opportunity for sexual pleasure. I do nto want to have sex with others out side of work for fears of that being told.