Lesbian Female / 24
At 23 I was under a lot of financial problems, I owed over 60 thousand in student loans, an another 12 thousand in credit cards, and the only job I could get was either retail or reception (I got the degree in anthropology every one was raving about).
Any way, I met a man who was divorced and a lot older, he took an interest in me, I gave him a taste but then told him that if he wanted it regular he needed to help me out with my loans. He gave it to me regular and paid my installments. One day I met a guy who is in my target age for a man to meet and I went out with him, which meant I wasn't available when 'he' came looking for me.
Even if I did nothing on my date, we just had a glass of wine, I got the riot act handed to me and told that he was paying for it and only he had exclusive rights to it. I said what the hell was he talking about, and he said if he paid, he and only he had rights to me. He added it up pretty quick and he had paid off about 7,200 of my student loan and that gave him rights, exclusive rights.
When I told my girlfriend at work, she knew I was seeing him, but did not know about the student loan deal, when she found out she said I was a whore, he gave me money and he got to screw me. And if his idea is that he pays and he gets exclusivity, then it was my decision if I was his whore he made the rules.
I asked him if he considered me a whore? He said he hadn't thought about that, but technically I was a prostitute. If I didn't want to be a prostitute then I had to become his sugar baby. I did not know what a sugar baby was, but I know now and it is no different than being a prostitute, he pays to support me and he gets it all, all the time, and gets to decide how and where he wants me to live. He wants me in a certain condo, he provides a car for me, and he buys me lots of clothes and accessories because his sugar baby is going to look a certain way.
I am 24 now and I am the sugar baby of a 58 year old man who has an obsession with sex and expects me to be his full time sugar baby, which means he is my sugar daddy. He spends a lot of money to support me and pay off my loans, I still work reception at a large company that expects you to dress a certain way, which I can only afford because my sugar daddy pays.
At least I am paying off my loans.
Any way, I met a man who was divorced and a lot older, he took an interest in me, I gave him a taste but then told him that if he wanted it regular he needed to help me out with my loans. He gave it to me regular and paid my installments. One day I met a guy who is in my target age for a man to meet and I went out with him, which meant I wasn't available when 'he' came looking for me.
Even if I did nothing on my date, we just had a glass of wine, I got the riot act handed to me and told that he was paying for it and only he had exclusive rights to it. I said what the hell was he talking about, and he said if he paid, he and only he had rights to me. He added it up pretty quick and he had paid off about 7,200 of my student loan and that gave him rights, exclusive rights.
When I told my girlfriend at work, she knew I was seeing him, but did not know about the student loan deal, when she found out she said I was a whore, he gave me money and he got to screw me. And if his idea is that he pays and he gets exclusivity, then it was my decision if I was his whore he made the rules.
I asked him if he considered me a whore? He said he hadn't thought about that, but technically I was a prostitute. If I didn't want to be a prostitute then I had to become his sugar baby. I did not know what a sugar baby was, but I know now and it is no different than being a prostitute, he pays to support me and he gets it all, all the time, and gets to decide how and where he wants me to live. He wants me in a certain condo, he provides a car for me, and he buys me lots of clothes and accessories because his sugar baby is going to look a certain way.
I am 24 now and I am the sugar baby of a 58 year old man who has an obsession with sex and expects me to be his full time sugar baby, which means he is my sugar daddy. He spends a lot of money to support me and pay off my loans, I still work reception at a large company that expects you to dress a certain way, which I can only afford because my sugar daddy pays.
At least I am paying off my loans.
