I am totally crushed. My husband of 15 years told me last night that he is gay.
He told me he's known for the past 5 years, and has had affairs with men during that time.
I just don't know what to say. We have a 14 year old daughter, an 11 year old son, and I'm 6 months pregnant.
How could he do this to me? What do I tell the kids? I'm totally lost.

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by Anonymous on Mar 19, 2003 at 5:21 AM

Rough spot to say the least.

I once had a girl friend with a gay father. She was one of two adopted kids in the family. Of course mom and dad divorced when it became known, but she always remained close with both of them.

I suppose you all need to talk; at 14 your daughter is surely old enough to understand but your son is another matter, and I don't know how you open to her and not him. Perhaps time to find a good family counselor/psychologist, but from my experience good ones are tough to find; maybe check with the kids school first in your search for one.

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by Anonymous on Mar 20, 2003 at 8:21 PM

I'm so sorry hun. Hope everything works out for the better. Good Luck!

~!Peace Out!~

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by Anonymous on Mar 21, 2003 at 1:38 PM

First, get a damn good lawyer. Second, get tested for any sexually transmitted disease.
Sue for divorce, and get what you can. It doesn't sound like he was very fair to you.
Especially being 6 months pregnant. What was he thinking?
Hope all works out well.

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by Anonymous on Dec 22, 2012 at 6:51 AM

WHAT A DOG ! Tell them that their father is a fag cunt that fucked off on them to be with a guy .. they are going to find out sooner or later so really better sooner than the latter !

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