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My wife doesn't let me lick her pussy and I love licking pussy.
My wife doesn't want to have sex as frequently as I do so I'm horny all the time.
My wife and I have been married more years than the number of times she's given me blow jobs (and none of them was satisfying because she's never sucked me until I came).
I watch a lot of porn as a result of all of this and masturbate a lot because that seems to be the only way I can really get sexual satisfaction. She has no idea that I masturbate this much and think I don't masturbate at all. I do it at work and sometimes at home while she's in other rooms.
I guess I would cheat on her if she would never find out ever but I don't want to risk it so I just keep pretending to be the perfect husband she loves in front of her.
I have not thought of leaving her nor will I ever because I love her for many other reasons as well and marriage is not just about sex, it's about a lot more than that.
What I'm saying is that I love my wife very much and would do anything to make her happy but I also love sex and because she can't give me the sexual aspect, I think it's perfectly normal for me to watch porn and masturbate and all that because at the end of the day, once I cum, none of those sexual things matter anymore.

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# 26210 - by Anonymous / February 6, 2016
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 1:44 AM

Would she consider a marriage counselor? Life is too short to be unhappy. Have you tried to talk to her and tell her how much you need sex? Marriage is a two way street. Its about working together toward one another's happiness. Tell her how much you love her, and how happy she makes you in other ways, but that you need to be sexually satisfied.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 9:00 AM

A very refreshing confession, I too am in a sexless marriage, despite what others on here will tell you there is far more to a good relationship than sex.
It is great to see that you would never even consider cheating because of the love you have for your wife.
Is there any reason or reasons why she doesn't enjoy sex? without putting pressure on her talk with her, explore different options with her.
If she finds you watching porn she may feel upset that you don't find her attractive, especially if the women in the porn are significantly different to her.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 10:12 AM

I'm the same as you but I would never leave because the kids

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 2:43 PM

I am a lot like you other responders. But a couple of years ago I sucked my first cock, discovered I love it, and that is now a part of my life. I may be way off base, but I do not consider it cheating. These men will never replace my wife and yes I do love her very much. If she enjoyed licking pussy, and was discreet, as I am about sucking cock, I would not have a problem with that. Perhaps you should not place such limits on yourself and at least consider other options.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 4:46 PM

Thank you all for your reply, I actually didn't think anyone would respond to my sondes sign to be honest. I just needed to let it out cause I was wondering if I was the only person feeling this way.
I wouldn't say that my wife doesn't like sex because she does enjoy it while we do it but I think she just doesn't have the same level of desire for it as I do. And although I would not openly admit it to her, I honestly don't think or feel it's cheating when I masturbate and watch porn because I really forget about all these girls as soon as I'm done, I have no feeling towards them whatsoever. But I know she will freak out if she even found out that I was masturbating becase use that's not a "natural" thing in her opinion.
Like I said before; she is perfect for me in every way, it's just the sex that is lacking miserably in our relationship and honestly, I haven't talked to her about this because I wouldn't even know where to start.
Oh and she is very insecure about her body especially since we had a baby because it changed her body drastically; and it doesn't seem to matter how much or how many times I try to reassure her that she always looks attractive to me, she just doesn't feel that way.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 6, 2016 at 6:48 PM

How along ago did your wife give birth to your baby?
The following advice was taken from a parental advice column about a womans lost libido after having a baby, it may be helpful for you and your wife,

Question

Since my baby was born, I haven't had any interest in sex. My husband tries to get me in the mood, but I just can't seem to get my body to respond. What's going on, and what can I do?

Answer

This is a very common problem, particularly after the first baby. Your body has been through many changes, and these changes will affect your sexual drive after you deliver. The effects of stress and worry that a new mother experiences should not be overlooked. You're probably getting less sleep, possibly feeling a touch of postpartum blues caused by hormonal fluctuations, and grappling with a very different body image than before your pregnancy. You need to be patient with yourself and know that this is a temporary problem.

Breastfeeding can play a significant role in diminished sexual interest as well. Estrogen is an important hormone that decreases with breastfeeding and this can affect your vaginal tissues. The most common vaginal side effects of decreased estrogen are dryness and a "pins and needles" feeling during intercourse. Understandably, this has a negative effect on your mood. When you resume relations, it's important to use lubricants to help protect the tissues and minimize the discomfort of vaginal dryness.

Your husband should understand that patience and reassurance, and not saying "This is just in your mind," is the key to helping you regain your interest in sex. Don't rush yourself. Instead, indulge in other forms of closeness and physical pleasure such as massages or long, hot showers.

If several months go by without any improvement at all, talk with your gynecologist. She can examine you to rule out any other potential causes for your decreased libido.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 7, 2016 at 5:13 AM

You need to fuck her right off. You only get one chance at life, this is no rehearsal. Find a woman who will treat you right and suck that cock of yours, until you feed her your man seed...

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 7, 2016 at 8:51 AM

Hahahaha guys I think the truth is that I have accepted that I'm going to be in a sexless marriage for the rest of my life but I confessed here my dreams and wishes, looking for someone to maybe tell me that it's not wrong for me to masturbate and that it's better than me cheating. I have no desire to cheat on my wife, but I also don't want to try and change the situation because she might take off nice to it and it backfires. So I've just accepted it.

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