Straight Male / 45
I found this website by accident a while back and I read the postings for entertainment basically. I never thought I would be one of the many to confess anything.
Been married for 20yrs to a very nice woman. Things have been great up until the past five years, and now things are not so great anymore. My wife used to have energy and enthusiasm, she always tried to look her best whenever possible and now it's like she doesn't care much about anything anymore.
We would go out to eat or maybe dancing, she would always put something on a bit sexy just to keep my attention she used to say. I can't even remember the last time I saw her in a dress with heels. The only thing positive I can say is the fact that she isn't fat! I loved when she went to get her hair and nails done at the Salon, we would always have great sex that night for some reason, which I was more than ok with. Now she wears her hair pulled back and she does her own nails, half heartedly. Once in a while she will put on some lipstick, but that's only if she's going to be around other people in a group situation. I have lost interest in her sexually and she has never questioned why I haven't made love to her as often as I used to. When I ask her about what's going on she just says she's getting older, etc, etc.
I deal with a lot of Sales Reps. that come to our company. I listen to their sales pitch and what their business has to offer and then I pass my recommendations to the higher ups to finalize the contracts. About three months ago a new gal came in that I hadn't seen before. Her name was Judy and she took over for the guy Jim that retired. Judy is 40yo and she is very attractive for sure. Very professional in the way she dresses and carries herself. Curly brunette hair and her makeup and nails are nicely done as well.
I had met with Judy several times in the past three months, her company was trying to get a rather large contact with ours and lots of money would be up for grabs for whoever got the contract. Judy showed up one day as I was getting ready to go to lunch, I invited her along and she actually said yes. We started with talking business and then got a little more on the personal side of things towards the end of lunch.
She had been married but it didn't work out for reasons Judy didn't explain. She saw my wedding ring and asked me how things were going at home. "Not like it used to be." I said without meaning to. None of my friends knew how I was feeling towards my wife, and I sure wasn't going to unload on a stranger about my issues.
Two weeks later Judy shows up and I couldn't help look at the way she was dressed as she came into my office. Nice white blouse with a form fitting skirt and heels. She looked like she stepped out of the Salon with her hair nicely done and her long nails painted red. I guess I was staring without realizing it and Judy told me just to put my tongue back into my mouth unless I was going to put it to use. I felt embarrassed, but her remark lingered around in my mind for a while.
Judy told me it sounded like her company was going to get the contract, it just wasn't official yet. She needed me to look over the contracts to see if any last minute adjustments were needed. I took off my suit coat and loosened my tie, it was going to take a while to read over everything. Judy made a comment about not being able to get comfy like me. I said jokingly she could take off whatever she wanted, I wouldn't tell a soul. She came around the desk behind me and said into the back of my ear. "I believe you could keep a lot of secrets," and I turned my head to look up at her smiling back at me.
Two weeks later my wife went to spend the weekend with her Sister, Judy and I had sex at the Downtown Sheraton. We made love more times that weekend than I had made love to with my wife in months. We didn't just fuck, we went out dancing one night and took in a movie. Judy wore casual attire, but looked sexy regardless. Just enough makeup and her hair was always perfect no matter what she wore.
Once the business deal was done I didn't expect to see or hear from Judy except the usual monthly visits that all of our contractors are required to do. The thought actually occurred to me that maybe Judy went to bed with me just to make sure her company got the contract? That wasn't the case, once the deal was done and paperwork was signed Judy still called and at least texted me everyday.
Suddenly the thought of asking my wife for a divorce crossed my mind. I wasn't happy and hadn't been happy in a very long time. The few conversations I had with my wife didn't seem to improve anything, and I wasn't expecting things to change. Judy and I got together a few more times when my wife was out of town, but this wasn't what I was looking for at all. I wasn't happy about it and neither was Judy, and honestly I was expecting Judy to end our affair pretty soon.
Oh yeah I thought about those guys out there who have left their wives for a new piece of ass, only to regret their decision. It wasn't just a piece of ass, we had a lot of things in common. Whenever I had a free moment at work or when I was home I debated with myself.
Three months later I told my wife I wanted a divorce. She asked me if there was another woman and I said yes, and I told her everything that I had been feeling about her long before I even met Judy. No it didn't go over well nor did she try to explain her side of how she felt. I actually was expecting her to have a list of my faults of things that I did or didn't do, that made her feel the way she felt. My wife just looked at me and told me to leave as soon as possible, and I did just that.
Of course she got the house and a bunch of other shit I could care less about. I moved into a Condo on the opposite side of the city and tried to settle into my new life. Judy was out of town for two weeks visiting her folks back on the east coast. I didn't tell Judy I had moved out of my house, don't know why I didn't? Maybe I thought if I told her I was now single that may change things for her.
She called me when she got to the Airport to let me know she was back. I told her if she could wait I would come and pick her up. She was in a bit of shock, it was the evening hours and I would be home with my wife. Judy said ok in a unsure tone of voice.
We made out in the car when she got inside the car until the Security Cop made us leave. I took another road that lead away from Judy's house and took her to my place. Judy sat in the car looking at me and the Condo I was living in now. She said nothing at first, no facial reaction either. "Let me see your hand," she said and looked at my hand with the ring finger. The ring was gone and Judy looked up at me and smiled.We made love half the night, and since then we make love whenever we can. We also go and do things, and Judy looks great no matter what we are doing.
Been married for 20yrs to a very nice woman. Things have been great up until the past five years, and now things are not so great anymore. My wife used to have energy and enthusiasm, she always tried to look her best whenever possible and now it's like she doesn't care much about anything anymore.
We would go out to eat or maybe dancing, she would always put something on a bit sexy just to keep my attention she used to say. I can't even remember the last time I saw her in a dress with heels. The only thing positive I can say is the fact that she isn't fat! I loved when she went to get her hair and nails done at the Salon, we would always have great sex that night for some reason, which I was more than ok with. Now she wears her hair pulled back and she does her own nails, half heartedly. Once in a while she will put on some lipstick, but that's only if she's going to be around other people in a group situation. I have lost interest in her sexually and she has never questioned why I haven't made love to her as often as I used to. When I ask her about what's going on she just says she's getting older, etc, etc.
I deal with a lot of Sales Reps. that come to our company. I listen to their sales pitch and what their business has to offer and then I pass my recommendations to the higher ups to finalize the contracts. About three months ago a new gal came in that I hadn't seen before. Her name was Judy and she took over for the guy Jim that retired. Judy is 40yo and she is very attractive for sure. Very professional in the way she dresses and carries herself. Curly brunette hair and her makeup and nails are nicely done as well.
I had met with Judy several times in the past three months, her company was trying to get a rather large contact with ours and lots of money would be up for grabs for whoever got the contract. Judy showed up one day as I was getting ready to go to lunch, I invited her along and she actually said yes. We started with talking business and then got a little more on the personal side of things towards the end of lunch.
She had been married but it didn't work out for reasons Judy didn't explain. She saw my wedding ring and asked me how things were going at home. "Not like it used to be." I said without meaning to. None of my friends knew how I was feeling towards my wife, and I sure wasn't going to unload on a stranger about my issues.
Two weeks later Judy shows up and I couldn't help look at the way she was dressed as she came into my office. Nice white blouse with a form fitting skirt and heels. She looked like she stepped out of the Salon with her hair nicely done and her long nails painted red. I guess I was staring without realizing it and Judy told me just to put my tongue back into my mouth unless I was going to put it to use. I felt embarrassed, but her remark lingered around in my mind for a while.
Judy told me it sounded like her company was going to get the contract, it just wasn't official yet. She needed me to look over the contracts to see if any last minute adjustments were needed. I took off my suit coat and loosened my tie, it was going to take a while to read over everything. Judy made a comment about not being able to get comfy like me. I said jokingly she could take off whatever she wanted, I wouldn't tell a soul. She came around the desk behind me and said into the back of my ear. "I believe you could keep a lot of secrets," and I turned my head to look up at her smiling back at me.
Two weeks later my wife went to spend the weekend with her Sister, Judy and I had sex at the Downtown Sheraton. We made love more times that weekend than I had made love to with my wife in months. We didn't just fuck, we went out dancing one night and took in a movie. Judy wore casual attire, but looked sexy regardless. Just enough makeup and her hair was always perfect no matter what she wore.
Once the business deal was done I didn't expect to see or hear from Judy except the usual monthly visits that all of our contractors are required to do. The thought actually occurred to me that maybe Judy went to bed with me just to make sure her company got the contract? That wasn't the case, once the deal was done and paperwork was signed Judy still called and at least texted me everyday.
Suddenly the thought of asking my wife for a divorce crossed my mind. I wasn't happy and hadn't been happy in a very long time. The few conversations I had with my wife didn't seem to improve anything, and I wasn't expecting things to change. Judy and I got together a few more times when my wife was out of town, but this wasn't what I was looking for at all. I wasn't happy about it and neither was Judy, and honestly I was expecting Judy to end our affair pretty soon.
Oh yeah I thought about those guys out there who have left their wives for a new piece of ass, only to regret their decision. It wasn't just a piece of ass, we had a lot of things in common. Whenever I had a free moment at work or when I was home I debated with myself.
Three months later I told my wife I wanted a divorce. She asked me if there was another woman and I said yes, and I told her everything that I had been feeling about her long before I even met Judy. No it didn't go over well nor did she try to explain her side of how she felt. I actually was expecting her to have a list of my faults of things that I did or didn't do, that made her feel the way she felt. My wife just looked at me and told me to leave as soon as possible, and I did just that.
Of course she got the house and a bunch of other shit I could care less about. I moved into a Condo on the opposite side of the city and tried to settle into my new life. Judy was out of town for two weeks visiting her folks back on the east coast. I didn't tell Judy I had moved out of my house, don't know why I didn't? Maybe I thought if I told her I was now single that may change things for her.
She called me when she got to the Airport to let me know she was back. I told her if she could wait I would come and pick her up. She was in a bit of shock, it was the evening hours and I would be home with my wife. Judy said ok in a unsure tone of voice.
We made out in the car when she got inside the car until the Security Cop made us leave. I took another road that lead away from Judy's house and took her to my place. Judy sat in the car looking at me and the Condo I was living in now. She said nothing at first, no facial reaction either. "Let me see your hand," she said and looked at my hand with the ring finger. The ring was gone and Judy looked up at me and smiled.We made love half the night, and since then we make love whenever we can. We also go and do things, and Judy looks great no matter what we are doing.
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