I'm 27 and a mom of 2. I've been with my husband for 10 years. I love being a mom and a wife but, I really miss being a woman.
I look at the other 20-somethings who are out slutting it up, and getting fucked on the regular. I'm still young and though my husband is 6 years older than me, he's still young too.
I get angry and jealous and feel a burning desire to cheat (though I wouldn't). I've talked to my husband about this before and he'll say things like "I thought we were doing better with the frequency" or something else to blow the situation off.
I just miss feeling desired (as in before marriage when I actually had a slew of friends w/ benefits I could call and would jump at the opportunity no questions asked). I've always wanted to know what it's like to be one of those women whose husband slaps their ass and actually LUSTS after them.
Instead, I'm the sad, pathetic wife who masturbates to porn and cries herself to sleep.

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by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2016 at 8:54 AM

Describe yourself. I'll lust after you, if that will help.

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by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2016 at 11:51 AM

You have a desire to have someone to lust after you, nothing wrong with that just remember you are still coming to your high sex drive years. Most ladies start this from your age to somewhere around 35. You will cheat because you need the attention don't feel bad some ladies just have to have more sex than others. Look for a married man they can keep their mouths shut and not make you fell like a slut.

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by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2016 at 12:36 PM

You need to do something as soon as possible. If you go on like this your anger and frustration will turn to bitterness and hate which wont be any good for you or your family. I suspect many of us imagine everybody else having these wild experiences and enjoying freer attitudes to sex. I know I look around and think what it would be like to be younger and to have sex as much as some people seem to. I also suspect that a lot of this is made up. Whatever the case, I hope things work out for you. You need to start with making sure that your husband listens to you, maybe through counselling.

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by Anonymous on Aug 2, 2016 at 3:57 PM

All that can be stated here with any certainty is : join the club, or welcome to the club Mrs. C. There are literally hundreds of thousands of people of whom I'm certain are sexually starved. We can start with the absolutely huge number of married couples, just to begin. The major cause cannot be pinpointed ; "it" just isn't happening. Personally, I'm just going to state that it's due to the many forms of societal stress & other forms of stress that have possessed & victimized most of us, as one key reason. It isn't anyone lacking libido ; however the processes involved in converting that libido to coitus is a "whole 'nother stretch o' road."

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by Anonymous on Aug 7, 2016 at 8:25 AM

You are not sad or pathetic when you masturbate to porn you are the opposite, you still have a sexual drive and are keeping it active and doing good to you, there I nothing wrong with playing with yourself and giving yourself pleasure and satisfaction, personal indulgence is normal, so stop criticising you, there I nothing wrong with you

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by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2016 at 9:36 AM

I know a certain lady that feels like you do. Her story and yours could be the same. Husband works a lot of hours, kids take up most of her time as well. She confided to me that she wants to feel that desire again. She's very attractive and it's all I can do to keep from coming onto her, I would love to show her how desirable she is to me.

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