I work for a well known tech advertising company. I have no degree, no background, no experience before this, and currently I am in an upper middle management position. From job interview to now (4 years later) I have worked my way up on my knees and back, offering, teasing, and giving out. People who think this does not happen anymore are crazy.

It is true employers are more worried then ever about sexual harassment these days and getting nailed with it and ousted but my tip to young women wanting to get some place the easy way is two fold 1) be hot enough to be worth the risk and 2) look for the guys with wedding rings and gray hairs, they have as much to loose as you do and know how to hide what your doing.

A few other tips are never feel guilty, and never fall for a guy you are doing to get a head. Your not a home wrecker. Home wreckers bring drama to work places and your ass will be fired not matter if you cry lawsuit. Your just fucking a guy for a favor and the favor does not need to be spelt out. It is not like, "If i blow you do i get a promotion?" it is like,"I want to blow you for the hell of it, lets be naughty and tell no one."--(and you just happen to be a guy who could promote me or help me later). Guys who do this in the work place know how to keep it quiet and you should too, never brag, never admit, and never do it openly. Guys who do this also know other guys who do this, so if say a Bob and third floor randomly on days says, "Hey, Steve says, your the kind of assistant my department could use." What you should do is smile, make eye contact and say, "I am, we should get drinks and talk about it. You free tonight?"

Lastly, sex will get you places but not keep you there. You can get a promotion on your knees and hold on to it longer on your back, but to keep it and not be outed as an office whore (which no one wants to get a rep for because then your days are numbered) you have actually do work and be some what useful outside of sex so that your position is justified on paper to people above your department. The good news for me is often older married men who are advertising clients also enjoy my "talent" and i bring in some big contracts nobody else was able to land.

On a personal note, you might think I am a slut. I am not married but I have a boyfriend and this is not his business, it is my business, and it is business, I don't have feelings for of work office fun guys but i do have a $150,000 year salary with no education or background. So think what you want, most girls whore themselves for a whole lot less and mostly nothing, you can call me a slut, but what I am is not stupid, doing very well, and am very happy and good with what I do.

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by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2016 at 6:47 AM

you go girl !!!!! ;)

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by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2016 at 7:30 AM

good for you..

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by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2016 at 7:55 AM

I am from a middle class family and my parents made to much for me to get student loans. I am sexually active but was raised pretty conservative. What you are saying has me thinking I could do it. I have never been with a married man though and that be hard but i guess not my problem if his wife does not do what she should for him. I am very tempted. Thank you for awakening me to the idea.

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by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2016 at 11:24 AM

I AM a married man, 56, and own a company. My wife is my age and sold me a bill of goods. We have zero sex. I just finished an affair with a 26 year old married girl. She was great. I commend you, not condemn you, for what you're doing. Wish you lived in Chicago.

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by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2016 at 12:27 PM

Good for you.

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by Anonymous on Sep 6, 2016 at 11:10 AM

Glad to see someone calling it like it is. There are one (or more) of you at just about every business I've worked for over the past 20+ years. Follow your own advice and never fall for one of the men you negotiate with (that's what you're doing, after all) and you'll be fine.

Oh and you're not a slut, youre're an artful negotiator. Women who call you a slut are pissed because they didn't think to do as you are and men who call you a slut are pissed because they either aren't getting any or are not getting any any more.

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by Anonymous on Jan 17, 2017 at 12:36 PM

You certainly need not be defensive about anything. You are
simply wise and gutsy, period.

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