When I was in college I got into a sexual relationship with another girl. We were 19 at the time, and we got a bit drunk and she got in bed with me and felt me up and took off her pants and sat on my face.

We did a lot after that, constantly getting at each other and we spent a lot of time with oral sex. I suppose that we made out, but that always seemed to be something we did in public for the shock value. When we were together there was too much desire for oral sex.

We are both long out of college now and we had turned down the heat. I got pregnant from a one night stand last year, and she is the only one to stand beside me. I don't want to have anything to do with the baby's father, and he doesn't know about the baby. My baby is now 8 months old.

We got together about four months ago and got hot with each other again, hotter than we were in college. This time we really did make out just the two of us, and spent the night and got very little sleep. We want to raise my baby together. We don't know if we are just into each other or are really on the other team. Other than with each other we have never had any desire to be with another girl. But together we are just in tune with our lives and we love to sleep together and spend the day doing nothing, other than taking care of the baby.

How do you know if you are really meant to be with another girl? I'm putting straight because I really don't know if I am gay.