My husband maintains a work and personal relationship with a woman. Her texts, his texts, the phone calls, errands, lunches, he say she is his best friend, she has no other male relationships. This relationship started in 2005, and has only gotten deeper. I know there is real love in his heart for her, and she is totally involved with him. All you have to do is read her emails and texts.

I don't have any evidence that he sleeps with her, but just one look at her eyes and how she behaves around him and I can see and feel that she is intimately committed.

My husband is 60, she is 38. I want to tell her if she wants children of her own that I will support her. Time is running out for her. Am I crazy? She has been there for him since she was 27, she has given him her child bearing years. I remember those years, I can't imagine that her heart isn't longing for children of her own.

Do I go to her? I have whispered to my husband, but sometimes he is tone deaf. She is not just a friend.r

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by Anonymous on Nov 15, 2016 at 3:38 AM

If you can handle the fact he will have a child by another woman and the financial responsibility that would come with it, I say go ahead and talk to her about it. See what her reaction is. On all accounts she has probably been fucking him for years anyway.

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by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2016 at 8:32 AM

Sounds like you'd be okay with a sister wife. However, unless she has communicated it, you don't know if she wants or can have children. Are you saying it would be okay for them to also be physically intimate?

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by Anonymous on Dec 23, 2016 at 4:33 PM

You appear to be a smart, considerate wife who knows her place i.e. Your spouse controls the marriage & you listen because he knows what is in the best interest for both of you. Additionally, you are to be commended for maintaining your silence & not initiating problems where there aren't any. You are wise to respect his friendships by not interfering & by trusting his maintenance of them. He most likely does the same for you. By the same token, you need to sustain your silence regarding their friendship. Due to there appearing to be no conflicts, there is no need to create one or meddle or poke until there is. i.e. we may as well just leave it be. Personally, I feel your spouse has needed to make countless deposits of semen into this lucky gal covertly over years of time, unbeknownst to you. Given your account of said relationship, I know I would have too!!
That stated look, no harm, no foul, no details needed. Per your considerate, thankful demeanor, you appear to embrace this relationship too much to interfere. You acknowledge that she is more than a friend. You've conducted yourself very well ; good job!!

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by Anonymous on Feb 8, 2017 at 3:18 PM

Whatever mold female mold you came from should be sustained forever & platinum plated!! You appear to be the dream wife that most men desire. I'm going to give you credit ; though not stated, I'm sure you know your spouse has been enjoying copulation with this woman frequently enough through the years.
Furthermore, you mention no evidence that this dame has NOT bore 1 or more of your spouse's children!!
Therefore, either you are totally naïve or there is a n_i_gg_e_r in the woodpile here.

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